I am different, I am not the average guy, do not expect average or customary. Be forewarned I am VERY picky. If you can't handle it move on.
First of all if I send you a message, don't get the wrong idea... It does not mean I am trying to get in your pants or going to propose marriage. It's an opportunity for us to exchange ideas to see if you can maintain a conversation or have any level of intelligence beyond the bedroom.
I have dated from this site for a while now and have found the majority are liars, unhealthy, promiscuous, gold diggers, drama queens or have no class... If this fits you move along.
If you are fortunate enough to make it to a date we will be friends for a long while. If you get past that then we will see.
If you have to say you are classy, then you aren't. Not interested in fake blondes or fake baked. Unless you were born with a natural dark hue... Thats a different story. Some of the most beautiful women of the world are of color ...brown black yellow red and pink. Natural brown and black hair is very attractive especially naturally wavy and curly. Love a beautiful face... One that looks great naturally. If you wear too much makeup it's unattractive. If you can't make it through a meal or a drink without getting lost in your cell phone ... Don't bother. Last week I got up and left a date at the table while she was texting. Thirty minutes later she texted and asked where I was. Told her thanks for the dinner... Left her the tab. If you have to check up on the kids or an emergency ( or your backup "get out of date"plan ) then excuse yourself and take care of it. Come back when you are done. I'm not a big texter... once in a while for a brief note or to transfer important info is fine, but I'm not going to text you a full conversation I could have done over the phone or in person.
Intellect is beauty. Honesty is charming. A smile gets rewarded. Passion, humility, humanitarianism, happiness and humor go a long way in my book. It helps if you can hold you own in a bout of sarcasm or debate.
Did you make it this far? If you laughed or even agreed with me then you might have a chance.
I have a large variety of interests, and am always active. Yes I go to church and it is very important to me. If you can see yourself at an art opening, or the theatre one week or cuddling in my strong arms by a roaring campfire making s'mores the next... Then drop a line.... We will see if I bite.
Something fun, and slightly adventurous. If you make it past that, then possibly out for a drink and some sushi, some karaoke or an art opening.