How hard can it be to find someone? Well, it appears to be much harder than one would imagine. Perhaps with decades of relationship experiences, some good, some bad, our ideal 'mate' becomes much more defined. In fact, so well defined, that the vast ocean of potential candidates for the position of 'Soulmate', 'The one for me' or whatever way one wishes to describe their wish list of attributes, now becomes a tiny pool with barely a minnow to be seen.
So now I am not looking for a soul mate or true love but for someone that I can be happy with and they with me. Not that I wouldn't love to experience true love again but I am a realist and for now being happy doesn't sound too bad. After that, maybe things will take on a life of their own and perhaps turn into the all elusive soul mate, or not. In which case we shall continue to make each other happy.
I am originally from England and have lived in Canada for the past 19 years. I have travelled extensively in Europe, the Middle East and Asia. Qualities I aspire to and admire in others are, trust, loyalty, honesty, integrity, honour, compassion, kindness and reliability. A good sense of humour!
I consider myself to be kind, down to earth and sane, (I don't howl at the moon, have an invisible friend, "hear voices" or "see dead people") and almost never need to go to my 'Happy place'.
At 6 feet 2 inches tall and weighing 205 lbs I am not petite or slender but I am not obese either. Not hansom but probably rugged in looks. I would like to meet a wonderful woman who wants to have a relationship based on respect, loyalty, equality and trust, someone who wants to be treated the way a woman should be treated. Someone who wants to work together to have a more meaningful and happy life.
I have received several 'added to favorites' and wanted to respond but the user setting prohibit me from contacting them. So, if you are interested best to just say "Hi". Then I can reply. :0)
Good luck to all in their pursuit of happiness.
May you grow up to be righteous
May you grow up to be true
May you always know the truth
And see the lights surrounding you
May you always be courageous
Stand upright and be strong
May you stay forever young.................
----///--\\\--- or is a Survivor!!