I am a down to earth honest man with a good heart in search of a loving partner to play with and share in the excitement of the daily routine of life. I have been a single dad for quite sometime enjoying a very active friendship with my two boys in their mid twenties. I live by and believe that the harder you work allows the time and provides the means to play even harder. Staying active and young is essential.
I have traveled all over the country for work and pleasure. So I am at ease in any environment, formal or casual. Although, formal in Florida seems to be (flip-flops and a tan)lol. I do take pride in dressing up especially when I am in the company of a pretty lady. I believe in complementing each other. I think that a lady having reason to smile is one of the most attractive features that she has to share. Also if you are able to start things out with a smile, it creates a presence for a truly enjoyable time. Ok, so recently I have made a decision to limit my out of town travel. Now I can take the time to meet and romance my smiling lady while focusing on a more stable plan of excitement and adventure. This involves leaving St Pete and moving with my dog (Baher) to a new area somewhere between Orlando and Daytona Beach.
My sons and I have come to a mutual agreement that it is time for me to meet some new friends. Hopefully, that will include finding that one special lady that will laugh with me, make me happy and complete me once again. She would fully capture my heart in conversation, comfort me with her touch and entice me with each hug and kiss. I need a cuddler that would want to curl up with me while sharing popcorn during a good movie. Possibly a sports buddy that enjoys baseball, football and hockey game once in awhile at the Forum. Certainly not as a weekend ritual but, maybe during the big games and playoffs. There are way too many other activities to enjoy that never seems to happen when you are tied up on your couch in front of that Big TV. (Size doesn't matter here)! Also it would be nice to find a competitive lady that can throw a few darts or shoot a decent game of pool. My ideal partner would become my new best friend and loving companion that is always fun to be around. She would be gifted with a sense of adventure and a willingness to participate in the kind of excitement that keeps us young and lively.
Yes, my expectations are many but my desire is only ONE! A very special lady that is looking to feel completely loved and content to start a new chapter in life with me as her new partner that is not going to take her for granted? I now know in my mind and in my heart that I am completely ready, willing and able to apply my new approach and make a daily effort to "NEVER FORGET THE GIRL"!
One sure thing that I can control while my heart still beats and my mind is still sound is my ability to feel loved and to show and give love and respect to my girl and future life partner. That is a self gratification of effort that is easy for me to maintain and worth every bit of time invested. What is not so easy is the fact that as we mature in our years, it becomes apparent and understandable that we now have to work even harder to maintain our looks. After all, our inconsistent shapes and whatever lines that we have developed and try to hide are well deserved. Wouldn't you agree? Although, I try to stay in shape, I truly believe that total fitness is only achieved through a healthy loving relationship. I feel that an exclusive desire for only one woman breeds a passion to love and want to maintain a healthy body and sharp mind. The ultimate plan for happiness and to accomplish our tasks has never been for us to do it alone. In fact it is completely the opposite. Life's prosperity is experienced only with a faithful partner.
To accomplish this partnership I have learned to realize that the small things you do are the most important. It is taking the time to respect and appreciate the things she does. To really listen to the things she says. Offering to take a couple minutes to help her can lead to hours of enjoyment and pleasure not only for you but, for her as well. It is the playful compliments accompanied by the little love notes and unexpected gifts for absolutely no reason that keeps the romance alive. Once again simply speaking, "NEVER FORGET THE GIRL"!
Also, imagine my surprise when I found out that I could not make things better or fix everything. So now I just take the time to offer a listening ear when those frustrations of the day need to be vented. Sometimes opening your heart is as simple as opening your ears. I have found that participating in each other's interests opens the door to try new things. Although, it is also important to understand each other's need for individuality and free spirit. Well, I certainly do not have any secret formula for romance whether short or long term. Just making the effort to appreciate, respect and cherish each moment together as well as apart, I think is a good start.
I am not sure if it is possible to find that one special lady that I speak of through this method of introduction. But, I am keeping my expectations high. Although, I find it really peculiar having to lose out on the initial display of mixed emotions during a first glance. You can tell how someone feels about you just by their look. For instance, if you don't like bald headed men you wouldn't really have an attraction to them right? On here you have to write in your profile what your likes and dislikes are. Making us a target for ridicule before even getting to know us. I mean how else do we determine whether the door is open or closed for just some friendly conversation? Alright I'll say it I am not attracted to bald headed women.lol! This method obviously influences us to judge a book by its cover or in my case a head by its cover.lol We all know that it is a proven fact of dissolution. I guess that I'm just still old fashion in spirit having to adjust to the mechanics of a more efficient way of finding the girl of my dreams. Of course, we all have our reasons for being here. Casual conversations with strangers does sometimes lead into meeting a few new friends. Which is fine if that is what you are looking for. However, my main objective is written above. I try to dispense with the small talk and determine the next step by mutual attraction and conversation whether to meet and greet. Who knows? We might possibly find meaningful justification in why we are here in the first place.
If you are also sharing those same views? Then I suggest that you should take a chance and share some of your thoughts with me. I am hopeful that you could be the one to get my attention and keep it? If so, I in return will be the one to earn and keep yours.
My idea of a first date should not be about what or where. It should be about the excitement of who you are with and the first time nervousness turning into relaxation and enthusiastic conversation. The mutual sharing of two people feeling the desire for future encounters. Which is quickly recognized and only achieved by being yourself. A CONTINUOUS SMILE FROM THE BEGINNING TO NOT WANTING AN END.