Starting to wonder (ok, it's been a while on these sites) if anyone reads, or really wants to know more than the old "ASL" and whether my pics grab you? I could tell a bunch about myself, my goals, what drives me, and who I hope you are... but it seems that gets only silence.
I get it -- your inbox fills up as a woman, replete with so many messages that you've taken to either skimming or simply eliminating based on pix, or age, or some other particular. What sucks is some of those messages were written with genuine interest, thought and intent... so, I'll skip all that and let's just do this bar-style and let you decide.
Reach a bit outside the lines - you never know what you'll find.
Drink, munch, talk, all the regular stuff... I'd rather this come naturally after some email and phone time, so it becomes a simple "hey let's see what this sounds like in person"