I'm going to speak my mind because that is what I do if you like it that is great if not it sucks to be you. I'm a woman of her words who means what I say I don't have time for games so if that's your deal just run along on your way. I'm tired of the lies and b.s. little immature boys try and pull I want to get to know someone who is the real deal. Don't lie don't cheat and don't use me promise me that I will be the best woman you ever meet. Be patient with me and understanding of my needs I give the same in return but screw me over and you will learn.
I'm no saint and a b*tch I can be but I'm also a human being. I Love hard and give my heart I've been hurt alot though so if I let you in don't break me apart. I'm a strong ass women who has been through some sh*twe all have are baggage just give me a chance and don't judge me.
I'm not the girl you can just bang and ignore don't even bother if you are just trying to score. I've been told many times my pictures may come off misleading by why should I have to hide a part of who I am in the beginning. Do I enjoy sex of course I do that doesn't make me any different from the rest.
If you judge me based on how I look, shake my ass or even cook you probably are not the one who's right for me. If you have read this far by now just get to know me don't be so quick to throw in the towel.
I'm I'm the real deal I know what I want please be able to communicate and we will go far. If you don't want to talk no need to be an ass a simple not interested can complete the task. No need to be rude and say nothing at all I'm not trying to marry you just saying hello.
I don't judge others it's not my place I don't care about how much money you got, or if you have a cute face. All I ask for is to be given respect have an open mind and you will be ensured nothing from me but the best. Your weight, education, and race are minimum factors your passion and heart is what is the best attractors. We all have a past that makes us who we are I want to know your story and why it matters.
Call this profile a little absurd I like to be creative and ensure that I am heard.
One thing that I must get off my chest most guys play to many games I want to find my match whose different from the rest. Inconsistencies are a true annoyance you click that you like me sometimes even say hi but then when we start to communicate you let the conversation die. One thing I can't seem to wrap my head around is you guys out there who say you know what you want it's put in front of you and you walk away call me crazy but that's not okay. If you like me you like me it's as simple as that no need to pretend This is not the theater this is real life don't play fricken games with a woman's mind.
No need to be an actor there is no script or a stage just keep it 100 and show me the real you. This isn't a crackerjack box I don't need any pop up surprises keep your intentions and stories straight there won't be any lies. Mean what you say and keep your word do you really care or is it all for show I'm not interested in buying a ticket if you don't really want to know. Get to know me and discover I'm a Kool chick I'm a woman like no other.
I value the importance of friendship and love I go with the flow and put faith in what he wants for me from up above.
I'm'm in no rush but I want to find my best friend emotionally connected I hope we will be. Let's get to know each other and just see. Who knows what is in store but everything happens for a reason and what's meant to be will be. If you have read to the bottom that's a good start who knows maybe you will be the one to steal my heart.
Edited to add something a friend wrote
When a girl says no, she does not mean, ask me just once more to make sure I am really sure.
When a girl says she is not interested or not feeling it, she does not mean continue to message her every time she posts a picture with some thirsty "wow" or "goddamn" or "sexy" or whatever lame words pop into your tiny brains until she is forced to unfriend you.
When a girl tells you she is not looking for a relationship, she does not mean, I want to casually **** you.
When a girl tells you, enough, it does not mean she wants to listen to you whine about how she owes you because you've continued to be nice to her even though she wouldn't have sex with you.
When a girl tells you about the number of times she has been harassed, cat called, degraded, insulted, threatened and screamed at for quietly and politely declining the interest or offers of a man, she is not exaggerating. Her entire life has been a series of split second decisions where politeness and quick escapes have been chosen in favor of standing up for herself because you never know which man will take no and which one will lash out and hurt you, hopefully only verbally, but if you're the unlucky 1 out of 6, physically.
We don't owe you attention. We don't owe you time. We don't owe you our bodies. We don't owe you RESPECT.
**can your whiney comments about how YOU don't do this and its NOT you. If you have ever sat in silence when a women was degraded, not told your friend to shut up, listened to what a "slut" that girl was because she had sex with whatever you or your friends deemed "too many", if you have ever disregarded her stories of harassment should she choose to tell you, if you have EVER been complacent when a women was being bullied and harassed and placed in fear, you ARE part of the problem**
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm open I think it depends on the person you are with. It's not so much about what were doing but more about enjoying each others company.