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Age: 44
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contactwess1: We all need ballast to keep from floating away
Non-smoker with Athletic body type
Marina del rey, California
40 year old Man, 5' 9" (175cm), Non-Religious
Caucasian Aquarius with Brown hair
contactwess1 is looking for a relationship.
Bachelors degree
Free Thinker

I am Seeking a Woman For Long term
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Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Yes
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets Dog Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 7 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious

Cooking/grillingGetting tripped up by a quaint bookstoreThe story behind the story
A distant shoreFeet of clayStudies in contradiction
The first snowBeers and bsA good turn of phrase
Cherub scornKeeping some kind of recordRoadtripping
Healthy skepticismFourth-quarter comebacksAutodidactism
Thunder stormsScar tissueDabbling without finishing
October playlists

About Chris
I just moved to the LA area from a small island off the coast of Savannah; I miss night-time thunder storms and live oak trees with spanish moss. I'm new to online fishing, but open to trying new things.

Like many people in the writing or art fields, I spent a good portion of my 20s waiting for life to change and keeping my options open. I arrived at "success" later in life via a uniquely circuitous route. Finding my own path through that forest has made me who I am today -- which is unlike anyone you've ever dated. The people I enjoy most are quirky and/or challenge preconceptions at every twist and turn.

This new "ambitious" question on POF? Gimme a break. Sometimes I rhyme slow, sometimes I rhyme quick.

Nothing is a bigger turnoff than reading profiles that request a specific race, height, hair color, income requirement or institutional education level. In addition to the obvious short-sightedness, why would I want to be with anyone who would slam the door on the possibility of finding happiness in an unlikely place? That's the best kind.

You don't want to wind up on a date with an acolyte of Dane Cook or Donald Trump (or maybe you do). Anyway, to head off awkward conversations or the likelihood of our record collections violently bickering, here are a few of my interests.

Music: Sam Cooke, Emmylou Harris, Nina Simone, Leonard Cohen, Bonnie Raitt, Talking Heads, Ray Charles, Johnny Cash, Olu Dara, underplayed Soul/R&B, Bluegrass, Jazz, Americana, breakup songs

TV Shows: Northern Exposure, Arrested Development, Louie, Parks & Recreation, Seinfeld, News Radio, Mad Men, Friday Night Lights, Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations, On the Road with Charles Kuralt

Movies: Casablanca, Beautiful Girls, Sideways, Old School, Anchor Man, Lost in Translation, The Royal Tenenbaums, Annie Hall, The Big Lebowski, Caddyshack, Swingers, Dumb and Dumber, Say Anything

Books: Travels with Charley, A Fan's Notes, The Great Shark Hunt, The Great Gatsby, The Tender Bar, The God of Small Things, Nine Stories, High Fidelity, The Sportswriter, One Hundred Years of Solitude, The Little Prince, Paddle to the Sea, Charles Kuralt's America, One Man's Wilderness, From Dawn to Decadence, Sex, Drugs and Cocoa Puffs

First Date
I had never heard of a coffee date until I joined this site. Surely we can do better than that, no? Ideal date is a beachside café, late afternoon, having a few drinks and making each other laugh as we get to know each other.

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Age between 25 and 45.
Live in United States