I should warn you that I am extremely honest and transparent in my communications. Please don't misconstrue that as conceit. :)
I can not give you a million dollars today, however I CAN give you extremely high-quality, amazing, profound love and respect. I will give you such natural, sincere uplifting praise and encouragement that people will believe that I am getting PAID a million dollars to be your best friend and lover for life. :) With your help I will make everyone in your life jealous of the kindness, honesty, passion, love and respect that I pour into you and that we share for one another. I am looking for a love that will make people want to STEP IT UP in their own lives after seeing us together. Please be able to give that same level of love and respect back to me. :D I am a cheerful giver of my time, effort, support, kindness, consideration, acts of service and more! I am very chivalrous.
I am looking for a woman to please and spoil with love and respect. I am very positive. If left to my own devices I wake up and go to bed in a good mood. I am a loving, passionate, honest, very intelligent, powerful, caring, kind, considerate, giving man looking for someone who would like to get into a life-long competition to OUT-LOVE, OUT-RESPECT, OUT-SPOIL each other. I will have your highest interests at heart at all times and looking for a selfless giver to do the same for me. Please get joy out of giving to your loved one. Please cheerfully want to spoil and please your mate. I am rarely as happy as when I am pleasing my partner and being a blessing to others. I LONG to find someone to make me addicted to their love, kindness and touch. I am gifted in all things having to do with love and friendship. I am extremely honest and value that in others. I am not arrogant at all, I simply speak the truth on this subject. I want to be out-loved or at least have my future wife WANT to out-love, out-respect and out-spoil me. :) Hit me with the good stuff and I will love, spoil and respect you beyond your wildest imagination and expectations.
THE LONG... In person, people think I am in my 30's and twice I have been mistaken for the SON of my 40 year old female friends. I found it more funny than they did. :) I look even younger when I am smiling or laughing. I was born and raised in Redondo Beach CA just a stone's throw from the sand. I traveled the world for approximately 10 years doing Military Intelligence work for the US Army, where my primary target languages were Russian and German, but I speak others as well. I did a few years Law Enforcement on a tropical island along the way too. I made others millions running a company for them, then created my own construction company over 15 years ago. God has gifted me with an wonderful mind, which can be both a blessing and a challenge at times. :) I am not your average man in any way. I am the 3% of REAL MEN / diamonds among the 97% of coal lumps in the mountain of average men on Earth.
I am a true renaissance man by definition... I am very strong, yet tender. I am highly intelligent, yet exciting. I am Godly, but very fun. I cross all social barriers and have been able to do so since I was in high school. I treat the valet that parks my car with the same respect and love that I show to heads of state. When I go to Kansas, I am just as interested in the local culture and people as I am when I go to Paris. I am EXTREMELY honest and open. Sometimes my extreme honesty about my skills and gifts can be mistaken for conceit. Any and all gifts I have are from God and the glory goes to HIM.
I have been proposed to over 30 times in my life. While I have never asked a woman to marry me... I DO look forward to the honor of asking THE ONE when I find her. :) I have three wonderful amazing little ones, but they do not live with me and are adults on their own now. I have a Godly glow that started a several years ago. It draws people to me like moths to a light when I let it shine. That glow makes men want to me my best friend and women often confuse my glow for lust or attraction. I am celibate and trying to wait for THE ONE. I spent the first two years after my divorce praying night and day for my lost ex-wife. Then after two years of focused prayer I took God's answer on the subject to be "NO". Only THEN did I allow myself to see women as potential mates again. I am patiently keeping my eyes, mind and heart open for THE ONE. Are you her? If so come make me helplessly, hopelessly addicted to your love, kindness, caring, passion, honesty and respect. :)
I enjoy giving and am much better at that, than I am at taking, asking for or receiving. However knowing that weakness of mine, it would be great if my future wife was a selfless amazing giver, lover and nurturer too. :) I am MAGIC with little ones and animals. I can be stubborn on matters of principal and honor, but love to give-in as a way of expressing my love and devotion to a those I LOVE. I am very demanding of those closest to me concerning honesty and respect, but deliver extremely highly in both areas myself too. One of my rules of friendship is to speak each other up GREATLY in each other's presence, but speak each other up TWICE as much behind each other's backs and never lets others speak each other down in the other's presence. :)
I am looking for someone who is willing and capable to cheerfully give almost as much as I am in the critical areas of honesty, love, passion, kindness, caring, consideration, tenderness, fidelity, loyalty, sincere uplifting praise, cooperation, communications, selflessness, affection, and maximizing our potentials, being the glue that binds our existing relationships closer still...
I will not settle, and if you are amazing, then you should not settle either.
Lying is the quickest way out of my life. Thanks to God, I am more active and stronger than most people half my age. People consider me to be in good shape, but I am poised to hammer my body back into great shape. :) I am open minded to relocate or do just about anything for THE ONE. I do marriage and love counseling occasionally. I am full of love and dwell in love. I wish and pray for the same for you.
I know my level of honesty is rare so let me say again, I only speak the truth here in an attempt to communicate information about myself to those interested in knowing me well and NOT to puff myself up... The specific word choices of my profile are specific for a person of faith, if you are not of a deep faith you might misconstrue their meaning. People call me ExRussianSpy and I use AOL as my service provider.
Much love and respect to you!