Well POF I'm about to give up online dating sites this was my first one to just try out, however I feel like when it's time to meet someone in person I get the run around or then they admit they just want sex...smh....really you can get sex from any THOT/hoochie any time of day, but someone like me is rare. I mean if that's your intentions then don't put misleading info on your profile. Be honest and real about yourself.
I'm old-school when it comes to dating and even music. I love old r&b love music. This day in age the leading on and lies people do only leads to distrust and that's one thing you must have in the friendship phase, especially getting to know someone new. I don't do drama or so-called men who just want to get laid. I'm hoping to encounter my best friend, which takes time and patience. I have one son age 16 now and I'm setting a positive example of what a real woman should look like, i.e. responsible, smart, funny, family oriented, etc. I've never been married I'm taking my time. God will send that special man into my life at the right time and place.
I truly think chivalry is completely dead when it comes to dating now this is why I've been single for years now. Men don't do the simple things like opening doors, bring flowers for no reason, have date nights, travel to spend quality time together, give/receive nice romantic massages, take bubble baths together with candles burning setting the mood, etc. People need to understand that honesty and trust MUST be obtained in the beginning in order to have a lasting relationship and that's what I want.