Im starting this with saying I'm not looking for a booty call!!!..... I'm a full time student at CAL working toward a long goal of a Phd. I'm not looking to rush into anything with someone but I do want more than a once a week date. I know what I want out of life and a partner and I'm refusing to settle for anything less. I'm tired of bullsh*t and being taken advantage of and lies too. I'd rather be alone than with someone that does not see my worth. I am a "horrible" smoker but I do want to quit. I'm a brutally honest person and no matter how much I may want to, I won't lie to you or for you. I love to cook for others and have small get-together's. I'm a sucker for board games (although no one ever wants to play them). I love to dance but rarely go out. I did the club thing when I was younger now I'd rather have a cold beer in a hole in the wall dive bar. I'm not materialistic at all; name brands and money does not impress me. Also, seeing someone on here with all their photos without a shirt is a turn off. Confidence is a turn on but arrogance will make the most attractive person repulsive. I'm very serious about school so when my work is done I like to watch mindless television and just relax. I like the out doors as long as its not hot. I'd rather spend a week in Alaska than in Hawaii. I love camping, tent or cabin doesn't matter to me. I want to do more fun stuff and share the experiences with someone. I usually work weekends which makes having the "fun times" with friends difficult. But if your up for week day getaways or week nights out playing pool or even paint ball I'm in. If there's anything you want to know just ask. However, if your on here to just get laid keep looking I'm not interested.