First things first.... If you do any sort of drugs including marijuana, I am not interested!!! What you do with your life is your choice, but I don't want it in mine. Thanks.
Also if you don't like bigger women then GET YOUR NARROW MIND AWAY FROM ME!!! thank you again :)
Ok now on to me.. I am Hawaiian and Black, I love to laugh A LOT, smile, and love. I love my dog son Bentlee. I am sweet and I have good morals. I am chill to hang out with. I am a Charger fan so no Raiders fans allowed (SERIOUSLY!!!). I am a bit of a homebody, but that can be fun with the right person. I do want a husband and family one day(not tomorrow though). I am not into being anybodys "babys mama". I am currently seperated, divorce pending (because SD courts are freaking ridiculous). Anything else just ask me. :-)
Here are the answers to what most of you guys ask me
What I like in a man: I like guys that are gentlemen, nice, like sports, can cook a little bit at least, is open to new things, manners, funny, non judgmental, fun, and I love all types of brown skin but I like dark skinned men the most. lol
What I look for in a guy I would be in a relationship with: is how he makes me feel. If I want to spend all my time with him and think about him all the time when we are apart then that makes me want to be with him. If he is respectful, gets a long with my family, isn't ignorant or simple, has good manners and isn't ashamed of being seen with me, has to have goals.
Read this in an article and felt it was fitting to what I am feeling:
"This is the sum of what I hope he learns about loving another person. Before you can make high towers, it’s best to build a good strong base. It comes from laughter, empathy, forgiveness, accepting the other person’s struggle, and knowing yourself. But sometimes without knowing it, you build too high and too fast. Things get shaky and start to wobble."
I really have no dream date in mind. I like to get to know someone and feel out the vibe we have between us. Then maybe the second date can be fun since we would feel more comfortable. Things like mini golf or dinner are always low pressure dates. lol.
****One thing is I work 2 jobs and have very little free time. If I set aside time for us to get to know each other, Please don't flake or waste it. ijs.****
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