************* Currently dealing with the death of my 21 year old son *****************************
Let me be purrrfectly honesty here….okay?
I’m just a woman who is NOT lonely ..I’m a real woman who would love to have some manly companionship and do things together…like eat dinner for one or go to the movies (even though I go alone, a lot) I just want to be a couple ...you know?
This is what I do:
I work on my house and know a lot about framing, woodworking, tile, some electrical, roofing, plumbing, installs and yes, I have a lot of tools (it surprises most people).
I work on my own vehicles and know a lot about engines (all components), do my own brakes (and yes, I can repack the front wheel bearings the old fashion way), change my own oil and know the difference between Synthetics and Standard, take in and out Alternators, Starters and other components, know where’s the dipsticks for all fluids, change my own tires and so forth... too much to list. I love the older cars, and no I will not work on your car, but I'll be there to help you!
I work on my own motorcycle (simple things, lol) and know how to handle myself just fine, enough that I rode across 11 states over 5,000 miles ALONE and I find riding extremely exhilarating, in fact I taught a class for women who want to learn to ride a motorcycles September 2012!
Now, I’m 4’11”, very feminine with a soft voice and DO NOT have grease under my manicured nails, blue eyes, wear light makeup, love to smell fresh and clean, wear dresses and skirts often.
I don’t cheat, never had too. Why do men and women lie so much? If you don't really like the person your with, just say so, but don't cheat...."BAD ROBOT"
For some reason, I’ve been cheated on. YES, it hurts because I’m not told why and really isn’t that all we ask when someone does that us? I take it pretty hard and will usually avoid men for a great long time (don’t know why I do that too)…anyway honesty has to be noted here or it’s not worth your time or mine. I would love to be taken off this site (been here way too long). I do visit here only when I get an email message that I have an interest, but I'm so at the point of deleting this profile and just trying the old fashion way of contacts: (yuck, taverns to play pool and motorcycle rallies)
I will turn 55 on New Years and think I’m holding my own pretty good, could maybe lose some pounds, but I like the way I feel most days. Some men like the weight; I’d like to find that man again (smile).
I’m French and it’s my first language, but lost the accent long ago…unless I get pulled over by the Police then it comes in pretty handy (smile).
No ex's in the picture - and forgive me if I talk too much because of being nervous on a date with you. Keeping it local works for me, or we can met part of the way. Do I look like I want to F*** U on the first date? No! So, don't presume it will happen. If I give you my telephone number, do call - Don't text cause I don't do that...be real and use your voice. I work on a computer all day, so I don't want to go using a tiny keyboard to answer you...get it?
I don’t smoke (quit 20 years ago), I don’t do drugs and I don’t drink alcohol (a sip of wine during Christmas is the most I’ve ever had).
I work full-time for the State of California.
I have two older vehicles and maintain them both as best as I can and my motorcycle (love to ride long distances).
I have two dogs and love all dogs, period. Cats, take em or leave em, no matter to me.
I am a real woman and I don't presume to be anything else.
Okay now that you've read this far, here's what I laugh at when I do a search for my City:
"Just looking" - Really? Really, then why post on a DATING SITE???? That tells women you just want a one-nighter! Just saying.
"looking for my better half" - lol so you're saying your half is below better? Why would a woman want that? Just saying.
Men show photos full of "adventuring" - that tells us women, your tooooooo busy for us, or it scares us. Just saying
Men show photos of their children. Really? Really? - I thought men want to look for a mate, not a mom/babysitter/making a woman feel second rate. Save it for the real time you met her/mate. Just saying.
If your looking for just sex, say so - that way WE women can NOT waste our time looking for a relationship and it will appeal to those women who DO want just sex. Just saying.
Here’s the date thing honestly….
Please don’t feel offended if we met and it just doesn’t click, you know?
If you don’t give me your attention and you are sooooo into your cellphone, just know I will NOT contact you after the date…because it really didn’t matter to you in the first place. I know my cellphone WILL be off to give you the respect you deserve.
I’m a pleasant and real decent person, even if the date sucks, I’ll still stay focused til the end, but again don’t take it offensively if I don’t return your IM’s, emails and texts after all, it was just a date. Oh and by the way, if I met you at your house at least look like your going to go out on a date...not in shorts or PJ's (unless we're going to a volleyball game or a Pajama Party)...Please!! Don't think because I came to visit you, that it's an invitation to F**K me or to touch me...I'm looking for someone who wants to get to know me (like clicking and hitting it off).
I’m not trying to be a ball buster here, but honestly just see that I’m not hiding a fake personality, I’d like the same for me too.
If it doesn’t work out for you, no problem, I'm a big girl, just do the same and finish the date. Just be yourself, relax and don’t expect anything..okay maybe the bill (LOL)…just joking.
Most people don’t think going to the movies is a real date, but hey I like to snuggle up on the scary movies…