**** I don't pay for the upgrade so I can't check the "Someone wants to meet you" message, so if you really want to meet me then you will have to send me a message me here or here's a hint: "Do you know what a cowboy yells.....(yah**) if you do then add that behind this: carrenr and email me. Can't get any simpler than that.
Here's the real, real thing: I've only met three (4 now) men from this site since joining, honestly. It was a date and no more, it didn't work out.
I’m a real woman who would love to have some manly companionship and do things together…like eat dinner for one or go to the movies (even though I go alone, a lot) I just want to be a couple ...you know? Work on things together, have your back, think of me and I you, hand you the tools you need, sleep with you holding me, tell you my secrets you tell me yours - I'll never tell anyone, get in my head I'll get in yours and ask "how was your day and what did you do" tell me the drama and know I'll listen intently. I'm really open to marriage and want to be there for you and you for me...I'm not a serial dater and hope you aren't either. I'd like to know that if the world ended, we would survive.
I've rode across 11 states over 5,000 miles ALONE and I find riding extremely exhilarating, in fact I taught a class for women who want to learn to ride a motorcycles September 2012!
Now, I’m 4’11”, very feminine with a soft voice and DO NOT have grease under my manicured nails, blue eyes, wear light makeup, love to smell fresh and clean, wear dresses and skirts often. **** Update....I'm a strawberry blond now *******
I don’t cheat, never had too. Why do men and women lie so much? If you don't really like the person your with, just say so, but don't cheat...."BAD ROBOT"
I will turn 55 on New Years and think I’m holding my own pretty good, could maybe lose some pounds, but I like the way I feel most days. Some men like the weight; I’d like to find that man again (smile).
I’m French and it’s my first language, but lost the accent long ago…unless I get pulled over by the Police then it comes in pretty handy (smile).
No ex's in the picture - and forgive me if I talk too much because of being nervous on a date with you.
I love guns, both types - metal and flesh. Strong arms around me, exciting and just make me feel secure!
I don’t smoke (quit 20 years ago), I don’t do drugs and I don’t drink alcohol (a sip of wine during Christmas is the most I’ve ever had).
I no longer work full-time for the State of California and happy as hell...and my time is my time now. I have a few clients (legal work).
I have two older vehicles and maintain them both as best as I can and my motorcycles (love to ride long distances).
I have two dogs and love all dogs, period. Cats, take em or leave em, no matter to me.
I am a real woman and I don't presume to be anything else.
Okay now that you've read this far, here's what I laugh at when I do a search for my City:
"Just looking" - Really? Really, then why post on a DATING SITE???? That tells women you just want a one-nighter! Just saying.
"looking for my better half" - lol so you're saying your half is below better? Why would a woman want that? Just saying.
Men show photos full of "adventuring" - that tells us women, your tooooooo busy for us, or it scares us. Just saying
Men show photos of their children. Really? Really? - I thought men want to look for a mate, not a mom/babysitter/making a woman feel second rate. Save it for the real time you met her/mate. Just saying.
Oh and as for children - Don't say how much you love or adore your child, we women know and get that, but it makes us think that you don't have any more adoration or love for us. After all you are looking for love, right? Just saying.
If your looking for just sex, say so - that way WE women can NOT waste our time looking for a relationship and it will appeal to those women who DO want just sex. Just saying.
**** Really men, stop saying your in your 50's and then send me a message only to see that your absolutely OLD, or older than me and nowhere near 50 - Damn, you don't think women see that? Out of touch. ****
Here’s the date thing honestly….
Please don’t feel offended if we met and it just doesn’t click, you know?
If you don’t give me your attention and you are sooooo into your cellphone, just know I will NOT contact you after the date…because it really didn’t matter to you in the first place. I know my cellphone WILL be off to give you the respect you deserve.
I’m a pleasant and real decent person, even if the date sucks, I’ll still stay focused til the end, but again don’t take it offensively if I don’t return your IM’s, emails and texts after all, it was just a date. Oh and by the way, if I met you at your house at least look like your going to go out on a date...not in shorts or PJ's (unless we're going to a volleyball game or a Pajama Party)...Please!! Don't think because I came to visit you, that it's an invitation to F**K me or to touch me...I'm looking for someone who wants to get to know me (like clicking and hitting it off).
I’m not trying to be a ball buster here, but honestly just see that I’m not hiding a fake personality, I’d like the same for me too.
If it doesn’t work out for you, no problem, I'm a big girl, just do the same and finish the date. Just be yourself, relax and don’t expect anything..okay maybe the bill (LOL)…just joking.
Most people don’t think going to the movies is a real date, but hey I like to snuggle up on the scary movies…