If you are looking for a "friends with benefits" arrangement, I am not your girl. Keep on moving on.
With that said, I'm looking for a nice man with integrity. If you attend Protestant church on a regular basis and practice what is preached, then that's a bonus and actually a requirement. I take my faith seriously. It has been the foundation that has helped me persevere through life. Yes I have made mistakes and wrong decisions. Recently I prayed for God to remove relationships from my life that were not glorifying to him. And they were removed twice. Though it was painful, I am thankful.
Moving forward, I am looking for a long-term meaningful relationship. All great relationships are based on a solid friendship. So friends first and see where it goes from there.
I am gainfully employed and well established in my career. So I don't need support nor do I expect to support you. So, of course, though times are tough right now, I would expect you to be gainfully employed as well.
I have been divorced long enough to know what I am looking for in a relationship. So I would prefer someone who is not recently divorced and has worked through all the issues with the ex and the baby mama drama. If you have kids and are recently divorced, you seriously don't need to be on these dating sites. Take care of your kids first!
Sorry if that seemed brutal but I know what I want and most importantly what I am not looking for. I think being honest and upfront is important. In fact, communication is the most important thing in any relationship.
More on what I am looking for. I find a man with "swagger" attractive (without the excess arrogance). Confidence is attractive. A man who knows what he wants and what he doesn't want and isn't afraid to be upfront and honest about it. Not a man who leads you on and then disappears like a coward.
Thanks for reading this far. Though I know this doesn't read as the most positive profile, I felt lead to put that out there so as not to attract the wrong man. Don't want there to be any question about that. LOL. I have many interests and dreams. I laugh alot and would like to find someone who has a sense of humor also. I have good friends and know how to have a fun time. Send me a line if you are interested. Look forward to hearing from you.
If you are man enough, I would love to hear from you and prove to me you aren't like all the rest.
(One more thing, I prefer a phone call over numerous texts. I am not looking for a long term text buddy.) Have a great day! LOL
A cup of coffee and casual conversation to get to know each other. Quiet dinner, etc. Something we can decide on together or better yet, surprise me with a plan. :D
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