How can you accuratly describe one's self?
Self depiction happens to contravene how others percieve. There for, if, however one chooses to embark on a rendition of them self, It may be contrary to fact. We all have a friend or know of someone who is the definition of the word humble. And is genuine as the day is long. But will never give them self the credit you or I would. So you could just imagine how misleading a bio from our humble character could portray.
Its like reading a misconstrued instruction manual that can sabotage any expectation apon meeting. No one willingly sets them self up for failure, but it happens.
If people are good only because they fear punishment, and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed.". Albert Einstein
Something easy, a public setting, where we can sit go through that excruciating awkward first moment. Order some drinks or a good bottle of wine and see if the escape option is going to have to come into play. If not, lets v compare one anothers worst date ever, people watch, glue a foreign coin on a busy walk way, laugh and just be yourself.