I'm a fairly active person, especially when it comes to doing things with my two kids. That doesn't mean I'm climbing mountains every weekend. I like nothing more than to kick back with my friends and/or family and have a few beers next to the grill.
Pretty much what you see is what you get with me. I'm goofy, I make bad jokes, and I like to play sports and sometimes watch them.
I like to jog -- for fun. I read crappy Science Fiction novels. I like to go fly fishing when I can.
I have two kids and I spend tons of time with their activities, too. That's fun.
And I don't like napping. Or whipped cream. Or ketchup. Everything else I'm ok with :)
It's most important to be able to talk in an environment that is conducive to it. If we are yelling "WHAT???" to each other, then it's too loud. I like a baseball game, a short walk or hike, or even meeting at a coffee shop. The big fun activity dates will follow after we've already had a chance to get to know each other a bit.