New to the area. Seeking my people.
I am looking for friends; adults without the look of extreme domestication. Must be spry, intriguing, and know your way around a faceted conversation. I do need funny, and slightly combative. I think Vonnegut, says intelligent people are more cynical about the world. Which can be partly true, if you let it.
I am almost 39 and plenty happy with my age. I'm comfortable in my skin, aware of my talents and flaws, patient, and plenty capable of accomplishment at any task. I like to do things, go places, try new stuff. I am open to contemplative conversations and might just play devils advocate to further the debate. While heat a passion are fun, also pride myself in being intuitive and knowing when to just listen. Women tell me so many men miss this mark. I try to understand balance and perspective. Many people live in black and white, I am grey. Growing up I went to a Unitarian Universalist church. For those of you that do not know, this means I am socially liberal, and treat other perspectives with respect and understanding.
My dating history tells me that I like brilliantly smart feministic women, under 5'8, with a taste for the counter culture. What I have found, is that while I like the aesthetics of an alternative girl; she needs to be capable, self sufficient, and not just beautifully wild and idealistic. I have lots of talents, and would like my future partner to be open to those experiences. I tend to unwittingly pair myself with introverted analytical types. These brains are attractive, but also need my partner to be open to an adventure as well.
Hopefully my profile is reveling enough to offer insight, yet still allow me to be approachable to an attractive, capable, smart, funny woman. Thanks for reading. Good luck on your romantic journey, or carefree misfortunes, whatever follows.
Please send me messages. Ask me something hilarious.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I want a chance to engage my date, and show her a great time. We can do that a number of ways.