oddlee: Well, hello there!
Non-Smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
Ellensburg, Washington
44 year old Male, 5' 10" (178cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Aquarius
oddlee is actively seeking a relationship.
Bachelors Degree
Business Owner

Hard at work..:)

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
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Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Under 1 year How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Cat  

About Lee
I was never really one who liked talking about myself much, but since I must here's what I have...

I can tell you that I am funny, witty, and a little sarcastic. It has been said that I am little short with some people, but I am taller than most. I enjoy talking to and being with people most of the time, but I also enjoy quiet intimate times. There are people out there that say I am not shy, but I think I am when it comes to meeting new people.

I have one cat, Aiden, a flirtatious 2 year old.

I have lived in Ellensburg 14 years now and I like it. I realize that I am not a big city type of guy, but I do like the convenience of having one close.

I am a white coffee and ice cream fan (TGF Winegers),

I am mostly an open book, ask me anything you like!

I don't recall when I read this poem, but to this day it still affects me!

Mountain Dreaming

It doesn’t interest me
what you do for a living.
I want to know
what you ache for
and if you dare to dream
of meeting your heart’s longing.

It doesn’t interest me
how old you are.
I want to know
if you will risk
looking like a fool
for love
for your dream
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn’t interest me
what planets are
squaring your moon...
I want to know
if you have touched
the center of your own sorrow
if you have been opened
by life’s betrayals
or have become shriveled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know
if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it
or fix it.

I want to know
if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you
to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us
to be careful
to be realistic
to remember the limitations
of being human.

It doesn’t interest me
if the story you are telling me
is true.
I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear
the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.
If you can be faithless
and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
from its presence.
I want to know
if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,

It doesn’t interest me
to know where you live
or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up
after the night of grief and despair
weary and bruised to the bone
and do what needs to be done
to feed the children.

It doesn’t interest me
who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the center of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn’t interest me
where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know
what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.

I want to know
if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like
the company you keep
in the empty moments.

By Oriah © Mountain Dreaming,
from the book The Invitation

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Chatting over a drink sounds like an excellent place to start, or we could take a walk. While the movies would be a nice on a second date, on the first we would not have an opportunity to chat and get to know one another...

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