If you are tired of dating men that are no good and don't have their life together. If you like a man that has got his sh*ttogether, and i mean got his sh*ttogether then i am definitely the one to talk to. i am truly single, no baby moms drama, no kids, no crazy ex girls, i got my own place, i got my own car (registered in my name), i got a job and i do know how to treat a lady like she deserves and that is placing her right by my side and not behind me.
Hey, i dont want to pressure anyone into meeting up but believe that is the reason, we are all on here, to see if we can find a match.if wee seem to have a lot in common and share similar interest, i did not think it is out of the ordinary for us to meetup and see if we share chemistry or vibe in person. but on the other side, i definitely want you to be comfortable and feel okay with it. so we can do it whenever you feel comfortable and ready.
When i meet a woman, i am not a man who has one motive or objective in talking to you. i have noticed that when people meet sometimes, they go into it thinking what they want out of it, you find that alot of people tend to force things where they dont fit because they are after a certain thing or they want it to go further. so i rather just go into it being open and let it be what it will, like a friend of mine says 'let nature take its course'.
I know what i want in a woman, i want someone who has beauty and brains. i think this encompasses all i seek in a woman from the physicality to her personality, character and intellect. yes, i do want a smart woman but who is fun with a sense of humor and wants to live life and be happy. i want a woman that will lay back every now and then and let a man cook for her and give her a massage with some slow music playing, at this time, nothing outside these four walls matters, you are just living in the moment.
I seek a person that can be understanding, trustworthy, serioous minded with a sense of humor and a person that loves to live life cos we only have one life. i myself am very spontanoeus, open minded, down to earth and i love to keep things real. i always say that i trust a person fully till i have a reason not to trust them anymore then i start thinking if they ever told me a bit of truth. my strength has always been my personalties besides my look. i have a strong will, i possess a high self esteem and confident with pride.
I have always been one how if i am deicated to you then that all i will ever want. i am looking for a woman who will be by my side not only when the sun shines but when it rain. a person who can stand the rain. so tell me is that you?
Just be ourselves no matter what we do and just let things happen, nothing forced. just have fun, share alot of laughs and let nature take its course. that is my ideal first date.