I am a mom to a really great little girl. I currently work at a doctor's office and I also go to school to obtain my RN.
I spend a lot of time trying to figure out how to be the healthiest I can be. I spent a good portion of my life being chunky-not overweight-but also not healthy. It's still a huge learning process for me, but everyday I see or feel small changes and I know I'm on my way. My next goal is to finish a C25K program-to help me become a better runner.
I am not looking to find "the one" right away, and honestly I'm not even sure he exists anyways. What I am looking for is someone that can (and wants to) put up with me, my hectic schedule, and my life as a mom. I also think its important to find someone with some of the same interests-to make sure you'll have bonding opportunities. I think in finding someone who is your best friend and vice versa-you'll find love. I know a few things that are deal breakers are not being healthy or caring about your health, not liking children, and not having goals in life (and working toward them). It's very important to me that I surround myself with happy positive people who work hard and play hard.
The Internet dating world has a very odd dynamic. I feel like we all have a level of people we date. If I go out there are certain people that will talk to me, certain people that are out of my league and others that I'm out of theirs. I suppose this is going to sound so awful-but it's true and needs to be said. If you think I would be unapproachable in real life-why would online be any different? I am not on here because I can't find a date-I'm on here because I want to see what all is out there. I am 30-clearly I'm not looking to settle on just anyone-if I was, I would have done that long ago. I need to be attracted to you. I need you to be attracted to me. You need to be taller than me-I do not date shorter guys. I'm sorry-I like to feel protected and that is just not possible when your smaller than me. I don't dig a gangster look-sideways hats-baggy clothes-leaving the tags on new stuff--wth?! I don't get it. I like fun, tall, fit, handsome guys with some class. :)
For dates, especially the initial ones in a relationship-I am old fashioned. Surprise me, wow me, sweep me off my feet-I still like to see some chivalry happening in today's world. :)