I figured I would update my profile since I created it many years ago and I have definitely changed since then. For starters I am much better at expressing what is on my mind. So I will try to do just that. What am I looking for? It's easy to say Ms. Right but what's right to another guy might not be whats right for me. I like a woman who is willing to have an open mind and at least listen to ideas that are different from what she is used to. I like a woman to be confident in herself. Not just say it but actually show it in the way she lives her life. If she wants something she goes for it instead of complaining about what she'll never have. Happiness is key. When someone is really happy they don't let the little trivial annoyances of life ruin their day. As for children... I love children. But I do not need to have any myself to be happy. I'm 50/50 on the issue of having my own kids. If a woman already has kids, it's not a deal breaker at all for me. Even if they are bad, they can still be taught good behavior. So I have no issues there. As for a woman physically, there has to be some some of physical attraction for me to be interested and I'm sure that works both ways. I mean I don't see a lot of women going after Quasimodo or one of the Goonies. With that being said I don't mind a woman being thin or thick. So long as she has a healthy womanly shape. That's not to say that all I care about are looks, but I'm also not going to pretend that it doesn't matter to me at all. I realize that some women will not like me simply because of the color of my skin. There is nothing that I can do about that. Both my pigment or their attitude. But if a woman is brave enough to be honest with me I will be respectful of them as a person and not be rude to them. No matter how much I want to be, lol.
So there it is plain and simple, what I'm looking for. Few women fit the bill, but I am confident that there may be one or two.
PS. Talking about how much you don't like drama is an instant red flag. People who concern themselves with happiness don't even pay any attention to those that cause conflict.