If you are looking for a booty call- stop reading now and continue on with your search :)
....if you are not over your ex or have baby mama drama- stop reading now and continue on with your search :)
.... if you are a cheater or a multiple dater- stop reading now and continue on with your search :)
...if you are looking for a meaningful, monogamous, long term relationship and looking towards marriage- please continue to read :)
....if you love children and enjoy nights in- please continue to read :)
....if you treasure the meaning of family and being there through the thick and thin- please continue to read :)
....if you feel that you are a person that would be comfortable with being a good role model, able to connect with children and be involved in their everyday lives - then I am definately interested to hear what you got to say :)
As you may have guessed, I am a woman who knows what she wants and is not interested in playing mind games. I have goals and I intend to achieve them :)
I have two sons- ages 15 and 9, who mean the world to me. They live with me full time and would not have it any other way. I am a baseball mom- my boys have been playing since they were 5. Being that my sons are older, they are quite self entertained and love video games,just like any other kids.
I feel that my kids keep me young. I had played woman's softball a couple of seasons. I can still rollar skate, do cart wheels and ride a bike..lol.
Aside from being a parent for 15 years, I have been in the dental field for about 12 years. I love my job and what I do :) ... my main goal is to become a dental hygienist. I had started taking pre-requisites but am taking a break and working full time. I plan to get back into school in the near future :)
I try to stay active. I have a treadmill that I use a few times per week and I like going for walks. I am interested in hiking, yoga, shape magazine workouts. I am not all hard core with the exercise, but I do feel it is good to get into some type of routine that works for me. I am not all muscular and am working at becoming more toned in some places. I am curvy- I have the hourglass shape- small waisted and big hips.
I will admit, I like to wear make-up, get my nails done and pedicures. I do enjoy dressing up here and there and being a girly girl. My style ranges from scrubs for work, hats- leggings tank tops and running shoes, to jeans and converse- then the dressy jeans and heels or high boots...and of course dresses.
I like a variety of music- from top 40, old school, oldies, hip-hop, dance, jazz, blues, alternative, rock, salsa, reggetone and some country.
Live performances , comedy clubs, wine tasting, movies, bowling, amusement parks, pool, karaoke, dancing are all fun to me- just not an every weekend thing for me. I like some light gardening and enjoy to read a book here and there. I am interested in going to some local pro sporting games-such as Giants/ A's baseball, San Jose Sharks, Warriors, 49er/Raider games- being myself or my boys have never been to any. I am also interested in theater and wouldn't mind seeing a play or an orchestra. Overall, I am pretty flexable and wouldn't mind trying something at least once. I like to have a good time and try to balance work, family and me time.
I am a romantic. I love the flowers, notes and all of the little things that make a relationship unique and special. I am a big believer in monogamy, communication, respect, and honesty. I am loyal, patient, funny at times, and like someone who has a good sense of humor. I am a person who likes to hold hands and be affectionate and likes to cuddle.
I am an early bird who enjoys a good cup of morning coffee. I try to keep things neat but I am not ocd over it..lol. I can say my home looks lived in -not like a magazine catalog - but everything has its place :)
My life has been a learning experience. I continue to learn and evolve and surprise myself throughout the years. If you are interested to know more about me and my family- feel free to inbox me or good luck with your search :)
This is normally not me- but I would Iike to try something different. I wouldn't want our first physical encounter to be filled with all these expectations. I would like to meet up someplace casual and not do the whole dress up thing- not like I would show up in sweat pants..unless you would rather I did ! ...lol :) ... I know you are probably thinking...how romantic is that??..lol..but really, if you can't handle me at my least dressed..than you don't deserve to see me at my best . Just feel it would ease off some of the pressure and help us focus more on just getting to know each other better. If things seem to be going well between us and there be possible chemistry, we can always plan an actual official date.