First dates I like open ended,the possibilities depend on the mix of personalities. Meet at a park on a sunny day. Walk, chat; keeping it light, which normally I don't do and have to be reminded to lighten up (but I take it well). Do lunch and maybe a museum or car show; whatever local event is going on. I don't like burning fossil fuels an would prefer a date that understood that foundation, rather than having to explain from home plate. To meet on bicycles would be ultimate; get around as if where ever we went was perfect.
If you've gotten this far; I want to explain, no I'm not an avid drug user, I have very different views on what drug use is and don't like to be associated with the judgemental, ignorant, law-enforcing majority on this one. Drugs are a problem in our society, but so is the society a problem in our society... so which came first the cart or the horse.. why the horse of course! Society has a long way to go.. classism (1st in my opinion.. right now), racism, sexism are just a few musts before drugism.. is that a word? Yes I am opinionated and do voice that fact. I'm not a pleaser.. unless I want to be...nicities are boring. Love is exciting ;)