There's a theory that you can tell a lot about a person by how they handle themselves in three situations: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas lights. It's good to show someone what you like to do in life, but there's also something to say about experiencing new things together.
I'm looking for someone confident and optimistic. Someone who likes to be active and who takes care of themself and has a good sense of humor. In this day . . if we can't laugh - we're in serious trouble.
Life is to be shared! I believe in keeping good, sincere, thoughtful communication and I've found that it's the key to a solid relationship. I've had some experience in the opposite and - wow- that just does not work.
The wide blue skies and gorgeous mountains of Colorado will always be home in my heart but Arizona has been home for 15+ years - I'm here to stay. I would really like to see what else this desert oasis has to offer besides beautiful weather, traffic and haboobs. Is that how you spell it? Where's Tombstone? Is that still a thing? Festivals, carnivals, local events - I thrive on all that stuff! How about you? I want to find someone who likes to be active and get out and DO things - someone who's optimistic about life and love. You don't have to love the Broncos, but at least don't be a hater. :)
Most of all... I want to find someone to share the day with, have "those melting looks" with, lots of inside jokes, and of course to be serious and supportive when needed. It's a fine art, you know, finding someone to go "all in" with - to kiss, to love, to rely on and to be there for, to explore all that life has to offer.. it takes time. I'm here, I'm ready.
How about you?
What are you all about?
..And lastly, good luck to us all. Everyone deserves to find whatever makes their heart happy and their toes curl.
*. . oh yeah.. Here are the must haves / can't take: I'm looking for someone my age who also has kids which leads to an understanding of parenting schedules and demands, someone who doesn't smoke -anything!- and likes to live a relatively healthy life except maybe at Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas ;). No criminals, no ex-drama, no weird..whatever.
Hey..these things ARE possible ~ I'm pretty sure.
The less "interview-ish" the better when you first meet someone. Have you ever seen a hostage negotiation? One word answers, tense, nervous, hostile...that's not how it's supposed to be when you meet someone. Let's NOT do it like that.
Movies are no good because you can't talk, can't see each other, and movie popcorn stuck between your teeth is not exactly attractive. So maybe..a dog park? A local farmers market of some kind, a bookstore and coffee? Hike?
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