Three words sum me up: Aspie, gamer, emotional....if any of those don't work for you, then at least we can be friends....maybe.
All I want is to be loved and appreciated for who I am, but to most people I come off boring or cheap. Yeah, well, I'm not going to please everyone, just that special one. I'm a nice guy, who's lately been trying to get somewhere in life. It may be a little later than I wanted it to, but I'm trying. I'm sweet, considerate, loyal, and I never back down. I still love video games, and I enjoy spending time on the computer as well. I've lived here all my life, sadly, and hope that'll change someday soon.
I'm a gamer.....have been since I was little. It's both a hobby, and a stress reliever....whether I'm watching, or playing them. You won't get me to get away from them, but I can always make time to spend with someone. I'm also a family man, and I love mine, even if it's a little bizarre, and my mom and dad are divorced. I'm hoping to possibly have my own someday, but if I can't, I can live with that.
I don't take too well to lying, so if you start talking to me, and we end up together, and you lie about it, or other things, then I hope you'll be happy with your decision to make an ass out of yourself....
I tend to listen more than talk......which is one of the reasons why I'm still shy to this point. I can't believe how much I've changed from what I used to be. You couldn't get me to open up about anything before. Now I have tendencies of being too open......of course, I have to feel comfortable in my surroundings, first. Don't worry. I tend to "come out of my shell" sooner, rather than later.
I'm not a country guy, even if I'm surrounded by it, and even if I grew up on a farm. So, if that's what you're looking for, I'm sorry. I've "grown out of it."
And if you're further than 50 miles from me, keep in mind that although I have a car, it's not the greatest long distance vehicle.....plus my back barely can handle it. And I don't have the means to fix that anytime soon. So, hopefully, you'll find a way to see me.
As far as what I'm looking for, not much, really. Being into video and/or computer games is perfect in my book....or at least open to trying. Sweethearted and loving is a must. Someone to spend time with, obviously. Age isn't an issue.....I feel like I could date someone much older, or younger. Neither is race. I'm attracted to anyone. I don't mind if you already have a kid. I just don't want to be thrown into the daddy role until I actually get to know the mommy and be comfortable with her. Anyways, cuddling is a must for me....I couldn't live without it....nor kindness....it goes a long way. And true kindness....not flakiness. I've seen enough lies and manipulations in my life...I'm done with that. And I don't mind if you drink....it's just drinking a lot, and often, that bothers me. I'm not very fond of partiers and massive drinkers. I've been hurt several times by people who liked the drink more than doing things with me. And if I'm not going to be top or near the top of your priority list, then you're not going to stay on mine.
Don't feel bad if I don't message you if I look at your profile. It may just be that I'm so used to getting to know women who don't have a good head on their shoulders, nor a good heart in their body.
I'd love to either go to a nice/pretty nice restaurant, and/or a movie, or take a walk someplace peaceful or have a picnic, or just go out someplace and talk, or just simply enjoy the comforts of cuddling up at home to a movie or something. Money doesn't have to be a requirement to have a good time or get to know someone, even if it might help.