Hi there, so your looking at this profile I should at least tell you a little about myself.
I am a very active individual, I am normally up for new experience, its just that I have leaned and know my limits, and I work comfortably within them. I am an honest and open person. Ask me what you like, I will give you an honest answer. I am caring to a fault, trustworthy, and loyal. If what your looking for is a 1 night stand just keep going, dont even ask. I enjoy good looking and physical chemistry as much as the next person but I also need some personality. I am looking for someone I can connect with and can have conversations with, doesn't matter the topics, they just need to be 2 sided.
I am pagan, I like walking in the woods and connecting with the life around me as a whole, camping out with friends, enjoying the fire and watching the sparks dance up into the darkness of the night, walking down a moonlit path and listening the world around me that I cant see with my eyes. I am very comfortable with the spiritual choices I have made and I am not looking to change any time soon, if you are reading this and think this is a personal challenge then please move on. I have no time for those that dont accept me for who I am and want me to be someone else. I believe that your connection to the universe around you is your personal choice and decision. I will not try to convert you to mine if you dont try to convert me to yours.
I can be very high energy and interesting to be around but for the most part I am pretty chill. I have learned patients and to see the bigger picture. I normally wont deal with something unless I have all or most of the facts that I can get my hands on. I normally prefer the talk it out and the communicate way to deal with thing. You let misunderstandings sit and fester then its much worse to try to get resolution. People are people and they all have different views, yours may differ from mine but I have my reasons and you have yours. If you have better reasons I may consider changing my view.
I love to cook and entertain. I have been known to organize and feed a group of volunteers for a week, produce a thanksgiving dinner for 20 or make a lovely dinner party for my closest friends. My facebook is filled with recipes and craft ideas for later experimentation. I guess I could be considered a foodie, I enjoy the taste but also the sensations of spice and mouth feel and general feelings when a well done dish is consumed. Food is more than something to be endured, its an experience at times. I can be adventurous in my foods but its normally from friends suggestions. There have been a couple of wrong turns but for the most part they have been right on. My friends know I trust them and they take it seriously not to abuse that trust....they never know when I may decide to take my revenge hehe.
What I am looking for is a companion. This could mean that we are together for few weeks, become really good friends, or wind up getting married. Who knows?? The Universe is in perfect working order so I will see what happens. Physical attraction is big for me in dating but I am also looking for someone with a great personality. I can be goofy and love a great sense of humor. Talk to me, get to know me. Alright you find me physically attractive but what about the rest of me. Be comfortable in your own skin and not look to me for validation. I am willing to bend and flex but I will not change myself to make you feel better. Every person is unique and there for interactions are unpredictable. I don't want perfection, that's not what I need.
Seems a good place to stop, still interested?? drop me a line or 3. :-)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I have simple needs when it comes to making me happy. Having dinner or a meal where we can relax, talk, and be ourselves. I like dressing up, but for a first time I believe it should be real.