IM THE GUY WOMEN LIKE TO TALK TO ABOUT LIFE AND I AM A BOOK OF KNOWLEDGE.. I LOVE TO LISTEN, I LOVE MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN EVEN IF THEY DONT NEED US. isn't it funny how SOME women never think about things they say. first its lets get to know each other then seems like when you meet all that is out the window. Then some arent even trying to talk unless you ready to jump head first in a relationship.in a rush to call someone their own then get upset when it dont work out.... YOu should always be friends first.. actually last too!!. a real relationship takes time..... and one more thing how come a woman can be busy all week( I understand we are all busy) but that one time she wants to see the guy and he's busy then its he bullshittin, he not serious, women, specially black women don't care about anyone's situation but their own and I've learned that this generation is doomed... LOl you have women who by nature are looking for a man but because of doctrines instilled in our ancestors no longer need him.. it pains me to know that most have no knowledge of how much our people have been manipulated.. its ridiculous how hard it is to actually find a real woman.... and thats just to converse with not even thinking about the stress of living up to some of todays standards.... I have met lots of women and seems that most dont need a man anyway by the time they figure out life aint about shoes and bags its to late... i challenge all my black sisters to read the willie lynch doctrine and see how they created the frozen independent female it might change the way you view the black man as well as yourself.. look into who started womens rights (not that im against them i was raised primarily by my mom and grandmom so dont think im some macho dude) im just stating facts. ROCKERFELLER ROTHCHILD AND OTHER ELITE FAMILIES WHO ALSO HAD YOUR HISTORY REWRITTEN wanted to tax you and get you out of the house so they could take control of your children which they have. THINK, ONE INCOME TOOK CARE OF THE ENTIRE HOME BACK THEN THEY WANTED TO ENSLAVE YOU AND THEY HAVE. IT ALSO TOOK THE RESPECT FROM THE MALE BEING THAT IT WAS HARD FOR A SO CALLED MALE NEGRO THEY HAD AND STILL HAVE PROGRAMS SET JUST TO DESTROY ANY BLACK MAN NOT DOWN WITH THE PROGRAM. DO SOME RESEARCH AND LEARN YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU ARE BEING BOMBARDED WITH DIFFERENT SUBLIMINAL MESSAGES THAT MOST KNOW NOTHING ABOUT SO WHEN i TELL WOMEN THEY SAY THE EXACT SAME THING AS ALL THE REST THEY THINK THEY ARE DIFFERENT NOT KNOWING THAT THE MAJOR DISTRIBUTOR OF ALL MUSIC AND TELEVISION ARE OWNED BY THE SAME PEOPLE, MOST GET THE SAME EDUCATION ONLY THING DIFFERENT IS WHERE THEY LIVE SO THERE MAY BE SLIGHT DIFFERENCES BUT FOR THE MOST PART THEY SAY THE SAME THING OR FEEL HOW THEY ARE SUBLIMINALLY TOLD TO FEEL. Show me something different!!!