Me: BBW—I’m fat, get it, boys?? 46, white, size 26, 5'8", hourglass, big soft belly, great rounded (not flat!) butt, thick thighs, etc. If you don't usually date BBWs, please don't contact me. I’m an all-natural, juicy, Earthy Goddess-type, with a liberal, bohemian flair…but with high standards of character for myself and you.
I’m a single parent of one 4 year old, and happy and fulfilled. My child is solely my responsibility. I have a great career, an excellent sense of humor, am financially solvent & mentally stable.
I am not looking for a friends-with-benefits situation, nor am I looking to consummate a relationship too quickly. I enjoy sex way more than most women, and am extremely sensual and gifted and talented in that area, but I am at a point where I want more than that for myself. Days of casual hook-ups are over for me. DON’T CONTACT me if that’s all you want…
I'd like to enjoy the love and comfort and joy of a good, healthy relationship that will lead to marriage. If you already know you will never get married, don’t bother contacting me. I am extremely sensual and sexual and want a partner who is also, and who knows how to be openly affectionate with me, privately and publicly. I don’t do well with shy men that won’t speak up; they just irritate me.
I'm looking for a good, old-fashioned yet progressive-minded man with strong values, and who desires a relationship leading to marriage and a happy family life. My child most definitely is part of any relationship I will consider for the future. So, if you know you don't want a child around you, or can't handle the work, commitment, and schedule they require, then please don't bother contacting me.
I am very open to a mentally and financially stable single dad with his own children; or a single man who desires a family life and genuinely loves children. Someone around 40-60 years of age. If you know the difference between "your" and "you're" and use them properly, you'll blast to the front of the line!!
I have a lot to offer a good man. I desire a loving, passionate man capable of deep emotion and true connection. I like a man who knows how to be romantic, thoughtful, caring, and very attentive. Someone unselfish, kind, and giving of his time, effort, energy, and love. Someone who will prioritize his life to meet the needs of his woman and family
A compatible schedule is necessary for a relationship to work. My schedule necessitates that I rise very early and get to bed through the work week at a reasonable hour. If you’re a night owl, we won’t be a match. I want my man next to me and holding me at bed time, not off watching SNL. It is also really important to me that you’re hard-working. I simply can’t stand laziness and will get irritated if you’re one who just lies around all the time, or wastes hours doing nothing. I love to relax too, and am quite good at it, but I make sure my chores and obligations are met and planned for first.
I don't deal well with people who can't open up, don't know how to talk, have social anxiety, or those who practice passive aggression. I just won't tolerate such things.
It's very important to me that my time is respected. If you say you’re going to call me, then you do so. If we make plans, you keep them. You don’t take ten years to send me back a 5 second text or a 1 minute phone call. You don’t make me worry by avoiding contact. You don’t avoid contact because you’re too chicken-sh*t to say what you’ve got to say. That is just being passive aggressive and cowardly, and I won’t tolerate it. Be a man, and make it happen.
As someone who works full-time and raises a child alone, I need a man who keeps his commitments, honors mine, and makes my time with him meaningful. I enjoy a man who can lovingly and confidently take the lead, yet remain open to my input.
Be able to speak your mind without being mean, and have something to show for yourself.
I can be happy doing most anything, as long as I'm with someone interesting and with a sense of humor.
In reading this, you may assume that I am a dominant woman who wants a submissive man. Actually, that’s not the case. I think I would have a hard time respecting a submissive man, and it is important to me that I do respect my man. Rather, I want a man who is my equal in that he is smart, has his act together, takes care of his business, and puts his woman and family first. He manages his money wisely, keeps his commitments, honors his word, tries to better himself, and is always seeking to take care of his woman and family—in every way.