I am looking for someone that is seeking the same thing I want in a relationship. I don't do bootie calls or friends with benefits. I am too old for all that and I want to settle down. I have a bubbly personality some would say. I am most always cheerful and happy. I can handle a serious conversation but I am known to seeing the brighter things. I'm generally optimistic and positive. I don't like people that are negative and put others down. I don't like flossy people. Money is nice to have but I'm not impressed by peoples status or wealth. I am bbw if you are looking for a woman that is thin and petite its not me lol. However I do like to exercise and go for walks. I also love swimming and traveling. I live in Missouri right now but one day I plan on moving. I like listening to r&b music mostly and I like a lot of old school music. I do like rap music but not as much like when I was younger, I like old school rap and some new stuff. I have a bachelors degree in management I hope to use one day but really I just want to be successful in something I enjoy and that I'm good at doing. I'm a bit of a goof ball I can be dingy sometimes I have a comical side to me so I like to be silly sometimes. My hobbies are watching tv or movies going walking when weather is nice and I love to travel when I can! I like going to church and I love God. I'm not a religious fanatic or claim to know everything but I do believe and I want someone who also believes in God and would be willing to go to church. There are some things I get confused about but I don't like to make it complicated just simple. I want to buy homes and rebuild them one day and then resale them that is about the only goal I have. Most people know what they want to do with their life I don't lol. I thought I had it all mapped out but I realized the only 1 thing I really want is to be happily married. I think some people are blessed when it comes to jobs or life and I think others struggle. Some say you have to work hard to get what you want I believe that but only to a point. Some people work hard all their life and still don't get anything good. So now I believe that we have certain paths in life and maybe not everyone is meant to have everything. I feel bad for people that struggle because I have been there and I know what its like. I think people should be kind to everyone especially those less fortunate. I have alot of views about alot of things. I guess I am very opinionated. But aren't we all. So if you want to know more about me message me. I don't message people first I believe if someone is interested in me they will contact me. I'm old fashioned like that. I won't be giving out my phone number just yet either just so you know! Eventually if we talk for awhile but not when I first meet someone. I don't understand why everyone wants a number whats wrong with talking and getting to know each other on here first! I don't do one night stands or phone sex so if you are looking for someone to get you all hot and wired up I'm not your girl! lol I'm unique because I'm me. I don't try to be somebody that I'm not. I don't judge people and I don't like it when others judge people either.