I HAVE GOTTEN SO MANY RESPONCES FROM MY PROFILE ( GOOD ,FUNNY,,BAD,UGLY ) IT IS IMPOSSABLE TO ANSWER ALL IN A TIMELY MANNER. BUT I AM TRYING TO DO THE BEST I CAN 3-26-15
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NEW MEMO 3-17-15
DATING SITES> YOU can say 100'S of things to make people like you . BUT you can say one thing that they take out of context and they will lose interest and delete you. people are funny. and they say animals are un civilized . how many animals will get mad, beat or stab you over the remote. they only want to survive. life consist of 3 areas ( white, gray, black = perfect , normal, bad) not speaking of race. but of heart and life. most of us live in the gray area. it is impossible not to have faults. but it seem as tho each of us is looking for the white area or perfect for us with out summiting to a few faults that we have to live with. take my word for it ( WE ARE BORN , WE LIVE , AND WE DIE ) and on that journey we adjust there are a lot of great matches out there " look through the weeds and you will find a flower" and don't be so judgmental you might miss your match
UP DATE 2015
OK LADIES here I am again LOL
now we all know you are attractive , and I would say even beautiful but now the next thing we should discuss it your pictures . you are here to get a good catch (FISHERMAN) but you are using the wrong bate . and it goes back to house keeping . now you are standing there looking so good waiting for a man to sweep you off your feet. but he looks at you in the picture and say WOW then the second look at your picture and he will see unmade bed with clothes scattered all over it and on the floor in the bed room. 4 days of dishes in the sink in the kitchen yard with grass up to the knees. and the 250 LB dog sitting at the table has to go. you have to reel him in then you spring the dog on him. and he will be afraid to leave LOL and STOP STOP , showing so much cleavage because when he ask for the full meal , you scream ( I'M NOT THAT KIND OF GIRL ) " WELL THATS THE WAY YOU ACT. ( SORRY IF I HIT A HOME RUN THERE) true I am not perfect, but I know what a man likes and I am only trying to help you since you are going to put your self out there one last thing when you get a message and you read it take 2 or 3 second to type ( no thank you , or not interested ) about the same time it takes to delete the message . because if you don't he will write again ( I DO LOL ) AND IT'S A WASTE OF TIME AND BOTHER ) for both of you. and a common courtesy , being the lady that you are. dating sites can be simple if you are polite. BUT yes I know you have to xxhkrojnnxx some of them out LOL just don't give a name you still want to be a lady..well that's it for now stay tuned for the next UPDATE " LOL LOL
MAN IN THE CLOSET
OK LADIES : just a note to help you. (QUESTIONS JUST ASK )
1 IF you decide to meet a guy , and you pick the spot "don't chose a place that you like to go often. if you don't like him and don't want to be bothered later. take my word he will show up.
2 if you sleep with him the first date. no matter how good he looks, or how much you like him. believe me your character is in question.
3 if he talks sweet and kind on the phone and you really like him, be careful and make sure it's not a front . if it is and you sleep with him and the next time you call he sounds mad. well it's for sure you have lost your bargaining power.
you have a beautiful head shot (picture) BUT THINGS WOMEN FORGET TO TELL YOU. you say average but 5"5" 195lb (few extra pounds) you have 5 cats 3 dogs roaming around the house, your hygiene , are horrible, you only smile and not grin because you have very few teeth , you are looking for a free ride or a place to stay , you are a horrible house keeper (dirty or horde r) very narrow minded, you want everything your way, you forgot to tell about the x boyfriend or the guy that you are seeing. you enjoy smoking a little weed every now and then, you ask for honesty you forgot to tell me you only had one leg, bipolar, or in a wheel chair(not that it would matter but it would be nice to know ahead of time. this is only my encounters I have had on most sited not all are like this but most (you know who you are) NOPE I not perfect (men in general).but ladies give us guys a break ,don't ask for more than you can deliver. we have feelings to. and don't judge us by the fools that are looking for a one night stand
no i am not average,i am well balanced.i don't do drugs,and i don't put strings,or demands on anything. would love to meet someone that enjoys life in general.not to serious yet not happy go lucky. if you like to laugh thats a plus.i i have been told i dress well,and smell good .but working in a high end store give me the chance to do that.i don't smoke but it dosen't bother me.lets chat and maybe meet.if all fails we will just be two ships passing in the night with no neg.feelings.give it a chance,we just might become friends.
LOL NOPE I'M NOT CRAZY LOL