Okay where to start! I think this is the hardest part, talking about yourself and putting yourself out there. Let me start out like this.
Some of the things that I am not; I am not a liar, a cheat, a model or a trophy. I am not a perfect 10! I don't do drama and play games. I am not perfect or without flaws. I don't hang out in bars or clubs. Gave all that up long ago and that is not my type of life style. Will I have a drink? Sure maybe one or two with that someone special but do I get drunk, absolutely not!
I am however, Honest, affectionate, loving, caring, loyal and God fearing. I love to hold hands, kiss and show my affection. I am grateful for each day I am blessed with and I do my best to not take anything for granted. I love my kids and grand kids. I have two dogs that are spoiled rotten and I wouldn't take anything for them. I have many interest and enjoy many things. Some things I am not able to do anymore for health reason. I can assure you that I am still going strong and I don't let much of anything stop me or get in my way if I want it bad enough. You won't find me in a gym or running a marathon but you could see me walking and still being active. If you have questions and want to know more then ask me.
We are all looking for something and most of us, for the same things. For me I am looking for a best friend and life partner. I am not here looking for someone to be just friends but who can be my forever partner. I have taken the last several years and have re-evaluated what was important to me as I have lived, loved and lost and I am ready to do it again. Hopefully for one last time. What I am looking for is someone who wants to share their life, someone that enjoys being silly and having fun and laugh yet can be serious when it is needed. Someone that can be spontaneous from time to time. I want to be able to talk about everything or nothing, to have a look from across the room or soft touch and know that there is love. I want the connection you get with a real committed relationship. Where you can get lost in each other as well as spend time apart and know that it is okay. To share each others interest and discover new ones together. To be spontaneous from time to time. I want my strengths to help you and your strengths to help me. I want to pick you up when your down. I want to zig when you zag.
To me it takes more than looking at pictures and reading profiles to get to know someone. It takes conversations and spending a little time together to know if there is any connection there. Yes there has to be a physical attraction but I also want that intellectual connection as well. We are not always going to connect with everyone and that is okay. You never know until you try and who knows, you may just find your best friend. So don't be afraid to reach out. If I have reached out to you and your not interested then just say so because it is okay. All I ask is don't play games and don't assume or pass judgement without knowing me. If you want to know then ask and I will tell you. Know this though, I don't have to have a man in my life to be happy. I have been on my own without a man for many years and have done okay. I know who I am, what I am and what I want. I won't settle for less. I wouldn't ask you to settle either. One more note: Although I have friends of all races I will not date outside of my race.
I shouldn't have to even say this but I am not on here looking for a one night stand or a hook up. If that is what you are looking for then great, but please pass me by. So take a chance you never know what you may find. Hope to talk to you soon but if not then good luck and be blessed.
Meet for a cup of coffee sweet tea, or an adult beverage where we can talk and get to know each other and decide if there is any interest. If there is then we can decide together what is next. Not everyone will hit it off and I don't want either party to feel uncomfortable or pressured.