First, let me start by saying I know that these places have a plethora of guys that only want sex. I AM NOT one of them. I usually message women I find interesting, and I know that you get tons of mindless douche messages so feel free to message me if you find me interesting. I hold a high respect for the women out there that can deal with the constant bombardment of mindless tools that swamp you on every dating site. Just know that I'm not like that.
Don't take my username too seriously. I'm not a very serious person most of the time. Just a FYI. If you put anywhere in your profile "I'm just a small town girl", Journey is the first thing to pop into my head...just sayin.
I am a big guy, but I'm far from obese. I prefer to say I have +10 points to my cuddling attribute. I have my own apartment, my own car, and a steady decent paying job with an okay company. My ambition has taken hold and I'm looking for even better now. I love video games, guns, working on cars, building computers, and am a decent handy-man. I'm a huge nerd and I'm not afraid to act like a total dork. When I visit with friends and family, witty sarcasm is almost guaranteed. I generally cuss a LOT around close friends, but not in public
I like to believe I'm a good and decent man, and when I enter a relationship I devote myself to that person. I'm totally honest almost to a fault. I give honesty and I expect it in return.
I'm a homebody most of the time, but that doesn't mean I never want to go out. I would be happy with going out maybe once a week for something fun, but not every night or every other night. Things I enjoy out are dining out, Putt-Putt, bowling, gun shows, car shows, museums, movie theaters, renaissance festivals, swimming, hot tubs, walking/hiking, shopping (yes, I like clothes shopping with girls) weird I know, and sometimes going out to drive just to drive or walk around the mall unless I've taken an arrow to the knee. I'm a kinda a cheap b@stard. :) If I can avoid spending money for entertainment usually I will, but that doesn't mean it has to be any less fun. I think it's worth mentioning that I'm a super Trekkie. If it's Star Trek related, I'm in!
A good match for me would like staying in regularly, gaming, watching movies, TV shows, and primarily other indoor activities. I'm totally cool if you want to go out regularly and do things I'm not big on as long as I'm not expected to go every time. We don't have to do everything together. :) Taking time for yourself is always important. Being a gamer is preferred, but it's cool if you're not. You may just be so much amounts of awesome-sauce I like a lot else about you. Gaming is my biggest pass-time, though, so you have to be okay with this, but I do get out of gaming moods occasionally, and I'm not one of those gamers that will ignore if you I'm playing. I just want you to be involved and playing with me. :) Liking to watch is cool too. Giggity
Music is a big part of my life, and is mostly centered around Rock; classic and modern, but I have a very large palette. Almost anything except screamo, gangster rap, and country. A lot of the time I'm listening to soundtracks like LOTR, Pirates of the Caribbean, Back to the Future, Star Trek, Star Wars, and more. I also listen to old school video game music like Sega Genesis, or Morrowind among others. Hey, don't judge me! I feel you judging me! lol
If you care about my gamer side, I'm a PC gamer. I generally play games that tell stories, have depth with character development, take strategy, and that require thought. I do occasionally play games like Left 4 Dead, Borderlands, and Serious Sam when I want some action, though. I'll run down a few games from my favorite's list.
-Elder Scrolls (series)
-Assassin's Creed (series)
-Sid Meier's Civilization 2-5
-Rome Total War
Yep, long profile.... lol
For me first dates should be agreed upon, especially with online being the initial contact. Probably something like dining out, putt-putt, or a movie, and if we really click and want to game, then gaming could be had.