It has been a few years since my 17 year relationship ended with my wife. I am not a one night stand sort of guy, but rather I am looking for another long term relationship. I have young children, and spending time with them is important to me. I do not want to have any more children, so it's great if you already have kids and feel the same. I am a little shy at first, but open up quickly. I enjoy the outdoors, hiking and cycling. My hair started going grey at 16, but I still have some pepper with my salt. I enjoy going out occasionally, but because I have young kids at home, going out all the time is not my thing. If you are looking for someone who lives close, I live on the northwest side of town (LaCholla / Ina).