I am recently divorced, after a 17 year relationship. I am not a one night stand sort of guy, but rather I am looking for another long term relationship. I have young children, and spending time with them is important to me. I do not want more kids, and will not budge on this. I currently work nights with Wed/Thurs off. My schedule isn't great, which is why I am putting it out there up front. I tried POF earlier in the year and found someone great, but our schedules clashed too much and it just didn't work out. But because of that relationship, I know there are honest good people on this site. I am a little shy at first, but open up quickly. I enjoy the outdoors, hiking and cycling. I keep in shape, but am not overly muscular. My hair started going grey at 16, but I still have some pepper with my salt.