My ultimate goal is to have a healthy relationship which allows us to be our best self.
I am fun, outgoing, silly at times, serious when I need to be, calm in a crisis, vigilant for a friend in need and loyal to those I love. I love to cook, entertain and host parties (annual Christmas party and plenty of summertime pool parties), dance, karaoke, work in the yard and my true passion is photography.
I want to share life's ups and downs together. I am not a drama queen just a Queen (I earned the title and my nieces gave me the title! LOL) I believe when you are with someone you should feel like you want to be a better person, make time for each other and enjoy the quality time together. I dislike people that use others and are mean to others. I can be comfortable in most any given situation but if I am not I know how to find a door without any trouble. Lol. I am a very independent woman because I have had to most my life. It would be really nice to have a man in my life I can depend on for comfort, conversation, love, compassion and passion.
Recently, a teenager I have known for many many years has moved in and I am a new mom. It feels like the right thing to do and I truly am grateful for the experience of having more than 1 child (most days). It is still very new for all of us but I believe it was meant to be. He needed a good, safe, stable home so he can finish school and wants to go in Air Force. I can honestly say it was the best Thanksgiving and birthday I have had since my 21st (was hard to beat Lake Tahoe ski weekend for a 21st birthday and thanksgiving with best friends!)
lets talk about it. Something different than the usual dinner and a movie. How about a game of mini golf? Something we can do and have fun where its easy to be yourself and not have so much pressure to spill your guts about your whole life on a first date. So lets do something fun because that is what we are here for! Teach me to fish, We can go shoot guns, I have my own!