My ultimate goal is to have a healthy relationship which allows us to be our best self.
I am no cougar so you younger guys in your 20's and 30's can move along. Also I don't date black guys. It's a preference. I prefer milk over coffee in the mornings too. It's just what I like.
I am fun, outgoing, silly at times, serious when I need to be, calm in a crisis, vigilant for a friend in need and loyal to those I love. I love to cook, entertain and host parties (annual Christmas party and plenty of summertime pool parties), dance, karaoke, work in the yard and my true passion is photography.
I want to share life's ups and downs together. I am not a drama queen just a Queen (my nieces gave me the title! LOL) I believe when you are with someone you should feel like you want to be a better person, make time for each other and enjoy the quality time together. I dislike people that use others and are mean to others. I can be comfortable in most any given situation but if I am not I know how to adapt. I am a very independent woman because I have had to most my life and I also know how to ask for help when I need it. It would be really nice to have a man in my life I can depend on for comfort, conversation, passion, laugh with, at, and that understands I do think like a woman, not a girl.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
lets talk about it. Something different than the usual dinner and a movie. How about a game of mini golf? Something we can do and have fun where its easy to be yourself and not have so much pressure to spill your guts about your whole life on a first date. So lets do something fun because that is what we are here for! Shoot guns, do shots, (not same time) play darts, stroll rivermarket, or Argenta, who knows....