sodakmike
Age: 45
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ClientAlive: Some things about me...
About
Occasional smoker with Average body type
City
Sioux falls, South Dakota
Details
40 year old Man, 5' 11" (180cm), Christian - other
Ethnicity
Caucasian Leo with Brown hair
Intent
ClientAlive Wants a relationship
Education
Associates degree
Personality
Hopeless Romantic
Profession
Computer Science


dating
Peace out homies!






I am Seeking a Woman For Long term
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? I do not drink Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Green
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Under 1 year
Second Language Other  



About Me



I'm big on qualtity time. I think it's my love language or something.

I'm big on closure. I don't like it when something comes up between myself and another and the person just says: "forget
about it," or "don't bring it up."

I'm real big on intimacy. If I like you, I'm pretty open about what I'm doing, my plans for the future, my feelings, my desires
and dreams, my beliefs - and I love love love the same in return. :)

I'm very honest; but, with most people, I don't always answer as they would like.

I try not to make promises I can't keep, so if I say I'll do something I'll do it (barring some act of God or something).

I'm very loyal. I'll usually give a person many chances but expect them to say something about it if they've done somthing I
felt hurt over (I suppose that ties in with my desire for closure).

I've found that if I feel hurt over something I'm usually involved too. I just don't always undersand how
at first or how it ties in. I see it as an act of love when that person will gently help me to understand my part (especially if
it leads to my understanding you better).

I don't like to be taken advantage of. I can usually tell when someone isn't beeing honest.

I'm certainly not perfect but if I become aware that my actions or words have hurt someone I'm quick to address the issue, admit
my fault, and avoid the behavior in the future.

I'm very trusting. I believe that a person deserves to start out with full trust and then they may lose it little by little
if they violate my trust.

I'm big on commitment. I believe that marriage is forever and that a couple should not be quick to give up on the love they have;
or, perhaps, once felt for each other - if things get tough.

I think that love is a choice. I think you find someone who you feel is compatible; and, if everything goes well, choose to open
your heart and share your life with that person.

I think that relationship is an ongoing growth process. As two people continue to open up to one another and learn about one
another they grow closer together.

I think that there are really three people involved in any relationship. There is me, there is you, and there is us.

I think that there are really three relationships in any relationship. There is the realtionsip between me and God, the
ralationship between you and God, and the relationship between us and God.

I also think that it's good to let God be 'in between' in any relationship. It's good to always seek Him first in anything to do
with the other person (regardless what type of feelings may be involved - be them good or be them bad).

I'm artistic with words. I love language and using words in elegant ways, beautiful ways, artistic ways, sussinct ways...

I'm logical. I love computer technology, know two programming languages, working on a third, and have built a couple computers
from the ground up.

I love a challenge. I find that solving challenging technical problems is exhillarating.

Sometimes not so great with social stuff. I was very shy when I was younger. (You just have to get to know me; and, when I'm
comfortable around you, I let loose and show my quirky, silly side).

I love movies. I mean I REALLY love movies. I've seen almost every movie out there and I like to grab them up quickly when new
ones come out. Mostly I like sci fi and action shows, sometimes drama. I don't feel guilty or ashamed for wathcing a rated R
show but I don't like senseless violence so I'm not into horror. Once in a while a romantic comedy or along those lines is ok
but not big on comedy. I like shows that make you think.

I haven't owned a tv in around eight years. I know me, and I'd get stuck in front of the thing way too much - so I just don't
have one and I get more done that way.

I love the Lord. He has brought me through sooo much that I just can't thank Him enough. My life would be nothing like it is if
it weren't for Him. Continuing to honor God is important to me.

I'm not very athletic, sports have never really intersted me (wheter watching it or playing it). I'm more of a thinker - chess
is my game.

I'm slim, 5' 11" and 165 lbs. I'm not super muscular or ripped by any means but I'm slim and toned.

I'm looking for something real, not just sex.. I'm looking for someone to love that loves me back.
Someone who wants to settle down and have a long term relationship possibly leading to marriage. I love all cultures and
nationalities. I love languages and would love to meet someone who's been outside the U.S. or speaks more than just English
(I've been learning Greek some time now).

I'm a hopeless romantic...

I'm looking for someone to share my life with that shares my love for the Lord, who is a strong woman with a voice of her own,
who is sensitive and caring, who is ok with a dreamer like myself or even is one, who loves all people equally regarless of their
skin tone, language or culture (not: love all behavior equally - there's a difference). Someone who is just and fair, who has
passion for life, who knows what and why she believes but is also open minded and seeking to grow. Someone who... ahh, well...
you know...

Still have your attention? Awesome! Drop me a line and say hi sometime.

Jake




[code]Computer geeks do it better :p [/code]

First Date
Dinner and a movie, some coffe afterward where we can talk and get to know one another. Really I'm open to anything though (except roller coasters - I hate roller coasters - ha ha). Really, I'm open to anything you enjoy doing. I'd just like to spend some time with you and get to know you, the details we can work out as we go. :)


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