id luv to say my life is full of fun and vacations but I cant say that. I'm a full time night shift worker. I pay my own way for everything. I'm not able to take off of work to go on vacations all the time. ( I appreciate the vacation time I do get from my employer once a year) I don't have boats, summer toys or a cottage. But I enjoy doing things on my days/nights off of work. I luv being active, I enjoy the Wisconsin seasons. I'm not in need of a man to make my life complete, but I think life is much more fun if its shared with the right partner. Road trips are neat, walks, spending the weekend away is nice. The summertime festivities are always fun. I enjoy listening to a neat little band at one of the local pubs.
id like to hang out as friends, talk, find out each others likes and dislikes, their preferences, thier moods, their attitudes and learn about thier personality and their way of life. having laughs and good times. wanting more time with that that person. finding things in common, some of the same interests, im a pretty independent woman. not needy in any way and id only be able to date an independent kindve guy, one that wants a steady partner in his life but is realistic about life and what would work or not work for a relationship. IM on a kickball league during the fall which I luv. I would luv to meet a man that wants to be active as our work schedules allows us to be. a man being out of shape is ok with me, as long as he cares and is trying to be healthy. i will never have a barbie doll shape or have a shape like a 20 yr old.. i will always have curves and more than likely, ill have curves where they dont belong, so u cant mind having a thick woman. . i hope this profile made some sense.and i hope u have a great day.
If u want to meet for the first time and cuddle with me, or come to my place to watch a movie with me on the couch, or be intimate on our first date/mtg,,,don't email me, don't ask to meet with me. If u want to meet as friends and see where it goes, then I'm available. it wont be intimate, it won't be sexual, but it will be a nice way to spend an hour or so just talking. if it's comfortable and nice for us both, then who knows what can happen in the future. I'm not desperate and I'm not into rushing a relationship. and I'm definitely not into jumping in the sack with strange guys anytime one would ask. if that's what your looking for, move on.
I might not be someone’s first choice, but I am a great choice. I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not, because I’m good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things I’ve done in the past, but I’m proud of who I am today. I may not be perfect, but I don’t need to be. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away. — Unknown
I think a walk in the park, or a summer festivity thats going on would be a good place to go for a first meet. I think a cup of coffee would be a nice meet and greet or meeting at the zoo or someplace public for a walk would be nice. its always nice to meet new people as new friend. if there is an attraction, there will be communication after that. if there was no spark, there still can be communication after that. we can always use more friends in our lives. no pressure, no trying to impress...just being oneself is the way to feel. We can always use more friends in our lives.