When asked the question “who am I”, I can’t help but to reflect on the journey for self discovery which has governed an ultimate sense of self understanding at this stage in my existence. I am a true existentialist at heart. I believe that one can find self through the acceptance of the ultimate destiny of death, by taking responsibility for ones freedoms and wills, by avoiding interpersonal existential isolation and finding an authentic meaning to life. Finding self is nonetheless a continuous process which requires vigilance but at this point in my life “I got this”. Therefore, I have to say that one can’t judge a book by its cover… because there is more to me then meets the bare eye. I am fun, loving, educated, unselfish, and incredibly loyal. I would move heaven and earth for my family, friends and miniature poodle Marley (& often do) lol. I love reading, writing, cooking, zumba fittness, people watching, psychology, personal enrichment, following political news/ current events and kids although I don't have any yet. I have managed to find self acceptance through being true to myself in more ways than I can ever imagine. I can put on a suit and help other find peace within themselves through the art of Psycho-Therapy yet I'm also down to earth. In addition, I am looking forward to adding more challenging roles and practices in both my personal and professional life. As I get older, I realize how life is too short indeed. So my motto: Live And Play Hard and Let Only Good Times Be Had by All.
As a career women with very little time to spare for anything or anyone thats not right or perfect for me.. I have taken dating very serious.I am seriously looking to make a connection that has the potential to turn into forever... I've been on many dates just for the sake of dating... So now I'm dating with purpose only.... The man that is a perfect fit for me has old school values with new school levels of consideration. I am most comfortable with a man that take charge, guides, shows respect, honor and protects.. A man that considers gender roles very important.. In addition, I want/ need a man that also knows how to listen, live, love and considers my opinions will regard..
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
My perfect 1st date would be an enriching conversation while drinking coffee or green tea...