I believe. . Just as you would do while preparing a meal, you would also want the right ingredients that will make that recipe for a great relationship work. Sometimes you can make substitutions but you need to be careful that it works well. Of course there are exceptions to those who can
create their own recipe. When it works it works. ..stick with it!
I'm not here to play games, date multitudes of people, or increase my list of contacts on my cell phone. What I do wish, is that I can find someone who I'm attracted to, both physically and mentally. Let's face it, the first thing we are attracted to is the physical characteristics. After that..I seek a beautiful mind. Someone I can connect with so deeply and so intensely that he is the first thing on my mind when I wake up in the morning & the last thing on my mind when I go to sleep at night. Someone who makes my heart skip a beat just by the way he looks at me, or whispers something in my ear. That feeling that gives me goosebumps..yeah you know what that is. Holding hands goes a longgg longgg way. Shows me that you want to connect, protect, and touch in a very basic but special way.
I'm looking for someone who takes care of his body and health. You don't have to be a gym rat, but I do work out regularly and appreciate the same in my partner. The man I connect with should be able to hold a conversation and talk about a wide variety of topics. I like challenges..so bring them on. Whether it's a game of pool, bowling, golf, chess (does anyone play this anymore?), trivia or any board game..I will challenge you even if you are a bona-fide pro. I love to cook & creating a dish that allows us both to 'play' in the kitchen is even better. My family is super important to me and I would expect no less from my partner as well. I also work hard and respect a man who puts his all into his job, but ensures that it does not take over his life. Time to enjoy a relationship is important so if someone doesn't have the time for one then thanks but no thanks.
I love, love, love music. Love playing it, love singing it, love seeing it and talking about it. I sang for bands years ago, come from a musical family and have a great appreciation for all types of music. Golf is something I'd like to get back into. Played golf regularly for many years and it's a sport I miss. I also love the beach (summer is my favorite season) and all that the season has to offer...biking, trail hikes, outdoor events..anything that will get me outside.
I'm open to learning interests of others and think it's exciting to share common interests but also learn new ones as well. I'm here to find just one man who hopefully is here for the same reasons, and maybe..with any luck, both of us will click that button at the right time.
Practically, our first date would be a no pressure meeting for a cup of coffee or drink. Not so practically...and best practiced on a subsequent date, would be a quiet dinner at a place where we could actually hear each other and get to know each other. I think it's really important to have time to talk in the beginning without the distractions of outside influences.
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