Do not write me off because I'm holding a guitar. I am not "a musician" as you may be thinking. read my profile. Ok....being that so many ladies told me my profile intimidated them, I will do the basic profile on top here and those who actually "Do" want what they "say" they want can venture below to the meaningful part.
I'm an honest, hard working guy who is down to earth and cares about others. I've raised two
sons (both live away) I am creative, passionate, fun loving but not afraid to talk about anything. I'm a good listener. If you and I connect, I will make you laugh and feel heard and adored.I like I like music, reading, learning, throwing a football or baseball with my sons, going for walks, drives, being spontaneous and romantic. NOW....the deeper stuff....
CAN YOU RELATE TO THIS?
I want to take the time to know, like and fall in love with someone before getting too intimate, too soon. Why? Because I want to be careful that my partner and myself are not mistaking sex for real connection, or accepting it instead of real connection.
IF YOU'RE STILL INTRIGUED, THEN HERE'S A BIT ABOUT ME:
I'm a open minded romantic who has raised two wonderful sons. I am a reader, a seeker of knowledge and a giver. I am a music instructor, inventor, songwriter, part time counselor (people tend to feel comfortable opening up to me) I am usually optimistic, youthful, witty and have the same energy I did in my twenties, both in how I am spontaneous and fun as well as physically. I can talk about most any topic and I'm a good listener.
I'm fairly handy (built a cabin and electric guitars) I am very sensual and physical. I love cuddling and sweet gentle pillow talk. (I know....strange coming from a guy?) lol
I am confident and assertive but also sensitive. I am affected by deceit and acts of betrayal because I am very giving and open and seeing that taken advantage of is painful, regardless to whom it's happening. The pictures I have posted are recent. I take good care of my mind, my body and my spirit,
I want to love deeply and feel loved. Don't we all? Yeah...it takes a bit of time but isn't it what really matters in the end. I want to be sitting next to my best friend in my old age. What about you?
My sons call me "The Notebook".....I think they might be thinking the older Noah, but they underestimate their dad lol.
IF YOU ARE THE ONE I FALL IN LOVE WITH:
When I fall in love, I love deeply and passionately. I am a one woman man. If you are using online dating like a candy store of choices, you aren't ready for what I bring. that's alright, but please move on. I love to make my special lady feel desirable and sexy and pretty and beautiful all at once. That really means something to me and I love the feeling it gives me to see. I listen. No....I mean.....really listen and that's important to me.These are attributes I am happy to have.
For what it is worth, I have had past partners tell me that my youthful energy is refreshing and very exciting. I suppose that's because I've not lost the inner spirit I felt in my late teens. All yhat being said? If you are one for contacting then playing the..lets keep him on the line unless something better comes along type, know that I am not second fiddle to any man in any way unless you are shopping just looks and in that case, you wouldn't be the type I would connect with. Just fair warning to the players and Ive encountered more than a few ;-)
PS I do not perform regularly or put music before anyone in my life. Pics with the guitar has scared a few ;-)
I am open to meeting for coffee or a drink, talking or texting if that is more comfortable at first, etc.