Well......back on here again. Bah no one likes a quiter. Im a single tattooed and pierced father to a 11yr old boy. I work normal people hours and make a decent living and dont live above my means. I have been on this site several times and have met some nice women but there always seems to be something that just doesn't mesh. So I figured I would give it another shot. Would love to say " Oh well this is my last time" but Im sure alot of people say that and just get right back into this pond.
Im the type of guy who goes by the motto, don't ask what you do not wanna know. You might not wanna hear the answer I give you but it will be the truth. I ask alot of questions for the simple fact I wanna know. If you have soo many secrets or don't know how to be open, we won't work. I wish I could tell you Im this great exciting, dare devil, "live everyday likes its your last" (hate that saying by the way) kinda guy but I am not. Im a realist. I like having money in my bank account, I don't need to drown myself in alcohol to have a good time. I am quite laid back and like to stay pretty stress free but am willing to do other things people like as long as it doesn't require any sorta pain to my back side. I am also not looking to be a internet pen pal. If your thing is you need to chat with someone for weeks before even working on a meet date... save it. Theres plenty of things I will wait for, not that.
Im looking for a woman who knows what COMPLETE honesty is. Not the half assed version of the truth. There is no give with me when it comes to honesty. You start at 100% but once a lie is told, you can never get back to that mark again and means complete trust wont happen. If you don't work, have a massive amount of debt (not including college) or live miles away its more than likely not going to work. I don't care too much for how hot you might be because vanity fades over time but with that said I am not a large guy. I am 6', 190lbs. If you are much shorter but weigh around the same probably not going to respond. Just really want a semi normal woman lol. We all have our quirks.
I could go on and on, but I'm sure it would read like all the other dudes on this site. With that, I hope to hear from you...yes you... not her... YOU!!
I usually prefer to meet somewhere public like the mall or some place we can walk and talk. Lets be honest, the first date is pretty much a interview. You generally know if you still wanna see the person after the first hour. No point going to a movie you can't talk or some loud bar with a bunch of distractions