UPDATE OF WHAT I AM ATTRACTED TO & SEEK: age 39-47, hair, a nice smile, someone of similar race and an optimistic attitude.I think the majority would say this same thing, I never imagined being on a web site like this. With that in mind, I think taking a relaxed approach to this new step in my life is the best choice since I do not like stress, pressure or to have to be something that I am not. I find pleasure in same and large things in life. I scuba dive and truly life anything to do in, on, under or around the water. I have had a pool all of my life, I describe myself as a "fish". I had a boat for many years but lost that in the divorce, lol. I would like to buy one again one day. I also enjoy my yard. I relax in my gardens. I like a variety of things and I think my personality can be varied also. I really love to explore new places and things. I think this 2nd chapter in my life has found me saying, that is something Ive never tried, Id like to order that. Or Ive never tried yoga, I think its time. I enjoy a quiet night cuddling watching a fire or movie but I also love to go out and see live music.I have a wide range of music taste, rock and roll 70's-90's, hip hop, rap, reggae, blues but not county. I have music on 90% of the time. I do not watch a lot of TV. I like to expercise, listen to music, dance, do home repairs, play with my kids and take a day to just explore somewhere new. What I am looking for is a man with a good sense of humor, an optimistic outlook, likes to be young at heart and playful. I prefer similar race, someone with hair, a car over a pick up truck and a honest, open, a caring personality over someone who thinks their worth is dependent on the material things they have obtained or selfishness and****. Richness is in found in a persons heart not in their bank account.
I have 3 kids 2 living at home. They are the most important thing to me. I have respect for the time that a man wants to dedicate to his children. For a relationship to really become serious I would want to have someone that would accept me as an individual and a single mom. I guess meaning I will not exclude my children for anyone and I would not want someone that would exclude his children for me. I have the hope that there is someone out there for me that can blend with my family and I can blend with his.
I have lived in Michigan all of my life. It is a beautiful state, but I really would like to live somewhere with better weather and more sunshine. I have a long term goal of spending retirement part time in Hawaii and part time here. I know that sounds like a big dream, but it is one I have looked at for a long time and feel I have a way to make it work. I am not a winter lover at all. I have a stable career in a profession that I really enjoy. I can actully say I love my job and the people I serve. I take pride in what I do. At work I am very professional, at home I can have a little mischievious side. I like to play, laugh, enjoy the moment and the little things in life. I am a pretty flexible person and can find any moment can be fun with the right frame of mind and company. I love to laugh, I like to be playful, Id say I am a young 40something. People in their 40's that refer to themselves as old exhaust me. I am looking for someone that would start as a friend if we feel a spark or connection lets see what happens next. I think chemistry is important. I would love to find someone as invested in me as I was in him. Someone that would call to just say hi. Someone to hold hands and know without saying a word how much feeling was between them. I am a romantic.
I like to go out somewhere to relax in a casual atmosphere so you can just be yourself. Lunch, a coffee shop, appetizers and a drink, a yogurt shop etc can all be fun. Feeling a connection to someone can lead to the next step. Meeting someone with the idea of it being a date feels like more pressure than I am looking for. You need a good friendship to build on so that is the first step to me. I know the right man is out there, could it be you?
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