I'm a self motivated, confident individual with a no stress personality. I like to think I'm laid back, however know how to act in the appropriate situations. Life is too short to worry about the negative, bad moments in life, and it's easier to overcome when you have the right person by your side.
Would love to find someone that felt the same way. I love sports, football being my favorite. Will try most things at least once, as variety is the spice of life. Like being active and getting fresh air by staying outdoors. As I get older, i'm appreciating the finer things in life, like going out for a good dinner and nice bottle of wine, but can just as easy stay in, watch a movie and cuddle while I give you one of my famous shoulder massages.
I've never been married, although I thought I had found "Ms. Right". Not looking to rush things and letting nature take it's course.
What I'm looking for:
At the end of the day, I'm looking for a good women to spend time with and explore new adventures. Someone that can hold a conversation, and my attention. Relationships are give and take, and hard work, but having someone to lean on, through good and bad, makes for a happier life (at least for me). We all have pasts, but it's where you're going and what you want to do that most interests me. I like to see the world and would ideally be with someone that can be spontaneous. Last minute trip to Vegas, or a weekend wine tasting in Temecula (or maybe we get real greedy and fly to Napa). If you're a nice person, have a good heart, I have no doubts we could have fun. At the very least we have a nice dinner and get to know each other better.
I think a good first date involves getting to know each other on a personal level to see if we're meeting someone that I feel has potential. Whether that be grabbing coffee or going out for a light fun dinner. I love movies, however i think that misses the mark of being able to talk to get to know each other. Maybe a walk at the Torrey Pines Reserve, or just walking along the shoreline and getting some sun. What I love about San Diego is that there are so many different things we can do. You could put your feet in the ocean, go hiking in the mountains or camp in the desert all within the same day.