I enjoy simplicity & living one day at a time. I like going out to eat, joking around, reading books, taking pictures and traveling. I'm a Life and Relationship Coach, meaning I help people with whatever area they are stuck in. It's like therapy but with a more of a moving-forward focus (instead of dwelling in the past).
I have two wonderful teenage sons who are the joy of my life (they are great boys!) One off at college playing football, the other (15 yrs old) here with me. I'm not trying to be a jerk, but if you have little kids we're probably not a match. My kids are older and I'm not interested in starting over.
My ideal match is a man who puts God first and has strong values. If your profile doesn't mention anything about God, I'll most likely pass it up. It's not about church attendance or being super holy (I have a little 'bad girl' side as well ;) but if you don't even mention anything about God it makes me think He's not a priority in your life. That's ok, but just not the man for me.
Short term, I'd like to find someone to spend time with/do stuff with. Long term, I'm looking for a life partner (husband). Let's have fun! Bonus if you like rain, coffee, and Gospel music.
I'm not looking to meet anyone who doesn't love himself, doesn't trust God, or doesn't have integrity.
I'm also not interested in a man with mostly women friends or someone who's dishonest, negative or doesn't have any desire to grow as a person.
NOTE: Although I'm open to dating all races, I've only ever dated black guys. It's just who I'm attracted to.