If you understand that this person --->( tall handsome ,smart ,physically fit, romantic ,knows how to treat a lady doesn't smoke, does not drink secure, great communicator ,a great listener ,great profession ,PHD , a good heart ,and know what he wants with a great personality)... does not exist , and if you also agree that the pursuit of a " perfect woman" is a joyless journey backwards, then...outside of the "idea" of fantasy there is a field of reality, I'll meet you there . Because if that type of thinking, up to this point hasn't done anything more for you than it has, you need to forget it ...
"How ambitious are you?" ...seriously?.?
Where were you raised, and where did you grow-up ? Midwest hopefully .
Iam seriously contemplating moving to beautiful Omaha, before the winter semester begins...we won't know until then