What good have out past reasoning and experiences been? . What have we learned ? Life goes on whether or not we have the discipline needed. We just have to deal with people as is, or not , its up to us. it doesn't affect the fact that life will not wait until we figure it out. I am now living in Omaha as of mid December ,its cold... , but its life, I knew it would be. I moved here to finish school, so the plan is to remain here for at least the next 5 years at least.. I am looking to meet females of quality more so than substance. Its ok if, you are not "there" yet but at this point you have a clear and definitive idea of where "there" is.
There is a lot of live worth living, left to live...
Ok so Socrates said , " one thing I know is that I know nothing"? and I agree so I am going to say what I think, not what I know, because i could be wrong.
I think, at this point i am only dating to get to that final woman who will get the rose . The future grandmother of my grandchildren .. right?
I Think, a newly single female is not for me.
i think, if you have been single for less than a year, that is considered newly single.
I think a female who doesn't want children is a deal breaker.
I think, living an unhealthy lifestyle for a period is ok, So if you are not running 5 k's (yet) or volunteering (yet) it is ok, life is tough, ( besides, i don't have the discipline to judge the undisciplined) . So if you smoke, or drink, or have gained weight , i am ok with it. As long it is a fairly new (1-2 years). I don't smoke, rarely drink .
All that being said, i could be wrong, i don't claim to have all the answers , i can only claim to try to produce them.