. . . . . . Update April 27th 2013 . . . .
Tomorrow I start a spiritual cleanse. I will not be cussing, fornicating (of any kind), smoking, drinking, or eating solid food (Im hypoglycemic so I will have to do something to maintain my blood sugar but otherwise no food) for forty days in order to achieve self enrichment. I don't care if you disagree and no amount of temptation will steer me off course. I am determined to complete this mission for myself.
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Im not looking to get laid, paid, or used. If you can't be honest and up front then move along to the next girl. I just want to make a friend that lives fairly close that wants to hang-out and isn't gonna freak out when they meet my kids and friends. Im a single mom, full time student, and part time soldier. I love animals and the outdoors and am very relaxed most of the time. If you want to be friends or just want to add a friend to your support network (one that you can be frank with and know that I won't run and tell your friends) then Im your gal.
I don't party a whole lot and my school schedule keeps me on my toes. I am overweight yes, but very in shape. If you don't believe me then come work out with me one day and I would be happy to prove it to you. I hate when people lie and say they are looking for a woman who is healthy and maintains when what they mean is they are looking for a skinny girl. Be like Dr. Sues and say what you mean and mean what you say.
I cuss and drink and Im trying to stop smoking, but its slow going. I don't care if you are rich, poor, or middle class. I have a super silly sense of humor and I don't even try to hide my flaws. In my mind our flaws are part of what makes us wonderfully individual.
If your not an animal person - keep moving
If you can't see past my skin color or form of my physique - keep moving
If you want a woman that will be a passive and happy housewife - probably not gonna be me
Must be good with kids and understand mine are with me almost all the time.
If your aim is to eventually get married, that is fine. Its not gonna happen today though. I am a type A personality and refuse to be controlled, at the same time there is nothing more irritating than a man that wants to be controlled or can't controll himself. Any relationships I have be they friends or romantic ase based on mutual respect or they don't work. In short . . . I won't tell you what to do and you don't try to do it to me.
I am a farm girl and I love the outdoors. Im a great shot with a riffle, shot gun, and any automatic weapon that is shoulder fired or heavier. I don't shoot hand guns well though lol.