I thought I met "The one" Only 2 learn he truly wasnt ready 4 someone like me. I am picking up the pieces the best i can and slowly getting out there again.
Friends First. We go from there.
Please READ ALL B4 You Msg Me.
I prefer men who are TALL 6ft Plus
Not Interested in Casual Hookups
Full Beard is Not Attractive to me.
Please Say What u Mean and Mean what u Say. If you are Unable or Unwilling to b HONEST (the "obligatory" definition) Please DON'T WASTE MY TIME or Yours! Simply Move Along 2 someone else. Honesty is HUGE 4 me. We cannot b friends or have the possibility 4 more If I can't trust in or believe anything you say or do. Actions will always speak volumes over words.
YOU ARE ABOUT TO READ A NOVEL!! :-D YES. I'M AWARE THIS IS VERY LONG. BUT IT LEAVES EVERYTHING OUT THERE W/ A LOT LESS TO QUESTION ;)
I'm NOT looking 2 rush into a committed long term relationship bc someone may Possibly be a "good fit" 4 me as a long term partner. I'm not looking 4 "casual intimacy" either. I'd prefer to take my time, get to know someone better, experience them in different settings then let's see where it leads. I'm looking to b friends first! That being said, the description below is what I envision my ultimate, BEST POSSIBLE Match to be.
I am NEW to WA. Just moved here from Hawaii. Please b patient w/me 4 a response. I am just getting acclimated and situated :-)
I'm from a small town and raised w/ good old fashioned morals and family values. I have an appreciation 4 nature and the outdoors taking camping and fishing trips annually with family & friends growing up. I also enjoy what a city has to offer including getting dressed up, going to a great restaurant & having a nice glass of wine, taking in a show or attending an event.
My parents taught me the importance of higher education, hard work and being able to take care of myself. Today I am a confident, hard working, independent "young" lady. I strive to b the best person I can be and am usually my worst critic. I work hard during the week so I try to enjoy my weekends and downtime!
I don't need someone to complete me. I'd like to b in a relationship where we compliment one another. A guy who I can laugh and have fun with :-), whom I can learn from, who challenges me at times but we can genuinely enjoy each others company and enjoy being around one another NO MATTER WHAT we are doing :-) I've accomplished and experienced a lot in my life so far. However, I believe no matter how much a person has accomplished or experienced there is ALWAYS room, 2 learn, grow and be better! In addition, NOTHING experienced alone is anywhere near as Fantastic as w/ someone you enjoy, love and care about!
I've been blessed 2 have had the opportunity to travel internationally. It's incredible 2 experience scenic views, different cultures, historical sites, cuisine and people in other countries. TRAVELING is one of my favorite things to do! This has also given me a new appreciation 4 growing up in Hawaii and in a Country where there are modern conveniences, opportunities to make a better life 4 yourself and the freedom to make your own choices. I make an effort to travel internationally once a year or every other. I also enjoy exploring the Mainland U.S. There's much I haven't seen or experienced. I'd also love to do a road trip across a few states some day :-)
Other things you might want 2 know:
Family is very important to me. I am a very Loyal Dependable friend and want friends in my life to be also. I like to SMILE :-) In general I have a very POSITIVE OUTLOOK on life. I occasionally can have an off day. However, I believe "One can visit pity city but can't move in and set up house and home!" lol. I have a playful Witty Sarcastic side which can sometimes turn into a sharp tongue if I get carried away. I can be a Goofball w/ whomever I'm "dating" (but not usually in public). What I VALUE MOST in a relationship..OPEN, HONEST and ONGOING RECIPROCATING COMMUNICATION!
Patience is not my strength. It is something I work on :-) However, anger from me is pretty rare!
I enjoy taking walks, hikes, the gym, fishing, kayaking, camping, going to the beach, riding my bicycle and much more. Anything outdoors or active. (it may at times take a little NUDGE from you to get me out especially after a long grueling week but I ALWAYS enjoy it!)
I love Dogs. MUSIC is a passion of mine. I love all types and especially Live. I enjoy the THEATER and Love Musicals! Learning 2 play GOLF!! And taking TENNIS lessons.
I very much appreciate QUALITY, Details and the finer things in life, on the flip side I feel I am GROUNDED, appreciate all that I have and value my small town HUMBLE beginnings. I'm not afraid to get DIRTY. In fact, I'm pretty HANDY and enjoy DIY projects. I own a POWER DRILL and my own set of Tools :-)
I enjoy being active and feeling productive. However, I am a very easy going go w/ the flow type and I don't mind hanging out at home too. QUALITY TIME with good friends or that special guy is more important 2 me than the activity of the day.
What am I looking for?
Someone who enjoys the Outdoors, Nature and being ACTIVE but also likes to cuddle and snuggle and hang out at home once in a while. CLEANS UP WELL and enjoys the city, likes 2 dress up and appreciates a nice restaurant, show, live music or night out would be a huge plus!
Great EYES! A beautiful SMILE :-) An initial PHYSICAL attraction & chemistry is very important to me. I am very Visual. A deeper INTELLECTUAL connection is EQUALLY important. Fun and Laughter, great conversations and SIMILAR Recreational INTERESTS. Mutual Respect & APPRECIATION, An HONEST, Loyal, Trustworthy, Sincere, DEPENDABLE, kind man whom I also have an undeniable reciprocating CONNECTION and COMPATIBILITY. Amazing sexual CHEMISTRY & compatibility is required.
A guy who likes to TAKE THE LEAD :) I am capable and willing to do it sometimes.. However, I prefer my guy to be the MAN in the relationship! ;-)
A man who is TALL in height (6 ft plus). One who strives for a BALANCED life. Someone who values AFFECTION regularly...Who is confident, successful by his definition and Financially Secure & Stable (I prefer atleast a financial equal 100k+ reducing financial friction). I'm Ultimately looking 4 my Best friend, Lover & Life Partner
An Outdoor Activity, Event or Something FUN? Or the typical meet for "coffee" (i don't drink coffee) or a drink or appetizer is fine too.....I'm open to suggestion.
I enjoy being active and outside. However, I am working my way back from a really bad knee injury and surgery so be easy on me!
Definitely NOT a movie. We can't get to know each other if we are looking at a screen! ;-)