It's A Competition Misunderstood........
I have sat and wondered on many occasions why there is such a lack of understanding towards what is needed for a Woman to seperate herself from the pack of Women she herself can even admit to being nothing alike... (But who is she foolin' if in fact she doesn't even recognize THE UNSPOKEN DIFFERENCES needed to be the one *A Man* will truly invest in).
And to add fuel to the fire... I've sat (even in this moment) and watched so many Women be "their own worse enemy" simply because of one/or maybe even a few bad choices made over time.
Now it's left to speculation for all involved... "What's the next best move?" So I'm gonna say this................
*Women, the 1st and most important thing to remember in your quest to find your INVESTOR is 'be cool'! Never allow an impulse to force you to speak or say something you fully don't understand.
*2. Please don't claim to know the look of *A MAN* if you truly are at a loss on how to interact with one... And to take it a step further, "NEVER be so caught up in your own Emotions where your character starts to resemble more of the act of a School Girl or worse, A Man. *stay cool*"
If it ever gets hard too, just ask for help. A good Man will be Honored to help... Because good Men believe in building with a Woman over FAILING ONE. And let me say that again for the 'Pessimistic Women'...
GOOD MEN BELIEVE IN BUILDING WITH A WOMAN OVER FAILING ONE!
*3. Remember that if ever you 'run out of moves' on how to Please A Man... Keep the mentality simple, but the actions Smooth & Noticed.
Meaning: (all that has to be remembered to Please any kind of man, especially A Real One is this... "Never let any other Woman do ANYTHING that you could be doing yourself for your Man, and I mean any and everything." Trust me, it matters more then you think).
And just like Women like to test Men...You have to at least show that your confident enough to have any and all conversations, about all things. That alone goes further then you think.
*4. Believe that A Good Man knows the type of Woman he's dealing with even before she knows who she should be for him... And always know that there's safety in that. Just be careful though, because even in the Depths of what's suppose to be shared between A Man & A Woman... Good Men (deserve) Good Women. Not the ones that come with all the Drama... Not the ones that want to put A Man through 'A Maze'... And definitly not the ones that feel all the struggles to see her heart are necessary. (Believe me, that's not how you see the strength of A Man.)
So in closing I'll say this... Life has always been about choices. Trust me, *I'm speaking from a real place* but it has to be known from Our Beautiful Women that it is not always about having all your sh#t together. It's about the sacrifices and vulnerability it takes to show a Man you don't. And then from there... A Real Man will naturally present himself. *What other choice would he have?*