Yes..I am adding to this...lol
I have recently been advised dating now days is like reading a good romance novel. ( guys want a mystery. .they don't want to know? So if you are the type that likes a mystery. ..stop here!
But if your the kind that likes to start at the back of a book to see how it ends...and see if you wanna know what the mystery was that got you (me) to that point...well keep reading.
I lost my husband of 15+ years of marriage, June 15th made a year . This past year has been hell !!! But I made it through it. We had a wonderful marriage that most people only dream of having. But he was taken way to early in his sleep due to a heart attack. I am 42 y/o and to young to spend the rest of my life alone. I have 2 kids a 20 y/o daughter , a 22 y/o son and a 2 y/o granddaughter. We are a crazy lil family but we love each other ...I am a paramedic and love what I do..I work long hours and rarely get off on time due to someone activating the 911 system.
I gave up drinking for the anniversary of my husbands death ..to see if this year will be different with a clear head. Besides it didn't help anything anyways.. I am not a home wrecker.. so if you are in any kind of relationship even a bad one get out. But don't bring me in it. I don't date black men, i have black and gay friends..but I'm not gay either..it's just not my cup of tea. I am a woman that likes to be talked to and treated with respect . I am not into one night stands or seeing your stuff on line. So please keep it to yourself. If I wanna go there I'll let u know. I have found when it come to intimacy it is so much better if you have feeling for that person...instead of getting feelings for that person do to intimacy. I am looking to have someone to do things with , being the 5th wheel is no fun. If something comes from that..great ! But until I find the next right one let's just enjoy life and have fun. My pictures are me...what u see is what u get. This is a real profile....I couldn't or wouldn't make this crap up. Now above it ask about kids....I can't have anymore...But if you have them that's ok....I do love kids....I just won't be baring yours.. And if your still interested please leave Ur name and a brief message after the beep...BEEP! LOL !!
I do have and age bracket of 35-45, I seem to be more attracted to men with blonde/brown hair and light colored eyes. I have found from my past experiences I get along great with Virgos..idk why, but I do. That doesn't mean I am not open to other signs or hair and eye color. I beautiful smile is very attractive. And if you can dance that is a definite added bonus. I do like Country, dance, and some new and old rock music.
I have to say honesty is a BIGGY for me. If you can't be honest then you can't be trusted and if you don't have trust then you don't have anything. Good relationships are built on good friendships with good foundations.
I am looking for someone that is atleast willing to meet half way. I do live in Slidell and I don't mind traveling a lil...heck that is what I do for a living...I try to save lives and sit in a truck for 12 hours waiting for the next call. because my day begins when someones is about to end. Or I am bringing crazy folks all over Gods creation...LOL!!!
I promise Paramedics ( NOT AMBULANCE DRIVERS like my daughter said " i'd rather be called a 99 cent pack of candy ( life savers) then an AMBULANCE DRIVER" ) don't make what most ppl think we make or should make. And I have alot of responsibilities that are all on me now. I carry my own and then some. But I promise I can't be your sugar momma....LOL!!!! I don't care if when we meet if we go Dutch...but please don't expect me to drive all the way to meet you then pay the way. Because if that is the kind of man you are, then your not the man for me...sorry! I ain't sayin I'm a gold digger, but I ain't messing with no broke N*****...LOL! yes that came from a song ! so please don't all freaked out...It's my story and I'll tell it like I want to..LOL!
Also I would like to see pictures of you! not just your kids, animals, hobbies or toys ( although I do like to see what kind of toys you have for us to play on) LMAO! . If your in them with those things then great post away..LOL!!! If you don't have pictures then don't bother, because that will be the first thing I ask for. Either you have something to hide or you don't have enough confidence to post them. Also I do NOT send out naked pics of myself...so please don't ask! and if you send them to me you will be blocked !
I am the kind of woman that can go play all day and get dirty, then go home and get dressed up to go out that night. I am not afraid to break a nail, although I do like them to look nice. I have helped my husband do roofs, remodel homes and just about anything he did I did right along with him. I believe we are in it together. Why not work on it and for it together. Now if we get along I do like to cuddle while talking and laughing. I would say spooning, but spooning leads to forking....and we not forking for awhile...LOL!!!
I don't go to the gym everyday, although I do belong to one...I like to go get massages and tanned... that saying no pain no gain...is for the birds!!! hell you think I am crazy..pain hurts...LOL! And that saying hard work never killed anyone..BS..I have worked several codes on ppl that are at work. I do work hard when I am not sitting, napping, shopping or eating...LOL! But when we do try to do any of the above is when the radio goes off.
That is enough about me what I like and don't like, what I am looking for and what kind of a woman I am. So if you made it this far...please send me a message and tell me about you....I don't want to have to pull teeth to find out. Happy fishing and good luck to you finding what it is your looking for.
A picnic at the beach or in the park, or even while fishing as long as you bait my hook...LOL!!! We can go to or watch a Saints game, the Casino, paintball, laser tag, out dancing or If you have 4 wheelers I like riding in mud hole and getting dirty. Like my partner told me you can't look pretty all the time...LOL I like to stay busy so you must keep my attention , because it is short. I like to have fun and play. I am just learning to relax a lil...but sitting still is not my style. Friends have a hard time keeping up. Dinner is nice but I don't at much...so let's have some sort of activities involved instead of just sitting and eating. We can still get to know each other.. if you can keep up..lol