humblefreak: Somin like a Boss ;-)
About   Smokes often with Big & Tall/BBW body type   City Lexington Kentucky
Details   35 year old Woman, 5' 7" (170cm), Christian - other Ethnicity Caucasian Aries with Mixed color hair
Intent   humblefreak is looking for a relationship. Education Some university
Personality   Intellectual Profession Executive Assistant


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I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Separated Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 8 years
Second Language English  



About Me
Thank you for taking the time to see what I am about :)

I am looking for a RELATIONSHIP, NOT a hit it n quit it. Someone REAL, Honest, Responsible and Family Oriented. I have three children who are FIRST AND FOREMOST. Their needs come before mine or anyone else's, including a man. If you cannot accept nor respect this, I am not the woman for you. I am an extremely busy woman. I hold down a well respected full time career, and am a single parent. I feel like I have next to free time, and hope to find someone who can ensure that they get the time they know WE deserve. I need someone willing to take the reigns, be assertive yet gentle. I have NO time for any one else's drama..so if your dishonest and have a past that haunts you...keep on stepping...I do not wish to play a part in your theatricals.

All of my children are biracial. My preference is chocolate. Always chocolate....milk, dark or special dark! Well...I cant say always, caramel is extremely nice as well. ;-)

I am intelligent, articulate, and intimidating to some, which is why I am on this site. I'm not sure if I have an unapproachable demeanor, but men...lol...wow...y'all LOOK...HARD...lol...you smile, maybe even SAY hello...but it is very apparent your scared say anything else or approach me with a specific agenda, period. I have a take charge, take no prisoners attitude in my daily and professional life, and I guess that comes across quite loudly. In regards to relationships though, I am quite the opposite. I am HUMBLE, Meek, almost subservient....WITH THE RIGHT MAN...a man that DESERVES to be treated like a King. I am responsible, reliable, trust worthy, and if I SAY I'm going to do something, please believe it will be done correctly and on time. I expect the same in my dealings with men. If you are not a man of your word, you are not a man at all.

On the other end of the spectrum, I am sensitive, SUPER passionate, considerate, LOYAL to a fault, and yes, I wear my heart on my sleeve. I love big, and I hurt big. I prefer my heart to be handled gently and adoringly. I truly feel that if a man adores you, every aspect of you, then all else falls into place beautifully. My BENEFITS PACKAGE...is OFF THE CHAIN. You CAN take that to the bank baby.

I am NOT a superficial person. I don't care what you HAVE possession wise, but I DO expect that you be able to care for and maintain yourself. I already have three children, and I do not wish to add to that. My tubes are tied...therefore if I did not GROW you and you did not come from ME, do not expect to be a "kept man". I am not expecting to be a "kept woman". I expect a man to be able to bring to the table at least HALF of what I bring. Yes, I have obviously dealt with this issue previously, hence the reason I am going through a divorce. (separated for over a year now)

Other Section (lol): Lakers/Dodgers Fan till the END! Growing up, Pat Riley and Tommy Lasorda were my idols! That holds true to this day. I, in my hay day, I played volleyball, basketball and softball. I lettered in all three, and won several awards (Golden Glove, Batting Title, Best Defense....yada yada). I VERY much so believe in TEAMWORK, in addition to PERSONAL BEST. Those attributes are transferable from sports into all of life's relationships. I work on ME, you work on YOU, and we work on US, together. These are the fundamentals.


"Love Rain"
By Jill Scott...My Kindred Spirit.....feat Mos Def

Love rain down on me, on me, down on me
Love rain down on me, on me, down on me
Love rain down on me, on me, down on me

Met him on a Thursday, sunny afternoon
Cumulus clouds, 84 degrees
He was brown, deep
Said he wanted to talk about my mission
Listen to my past lives.
Took me on long walks to places where butterflies rest easy
Talked about Moses and Mumia
Reparations, blue colors, memories of shell-topped Adidas
He was fresh, like summer peaches
Sweet on my mind like block parties and penny candy
Us was nice and warm, no jacket, no umbrella, just warm
At night we would watch the stars
And he would physically give me each and every one
I felt like cayenne pepper, red, hot, spicy
I felt dizzy and so near heaven and miles between my thighs!!!
Better than love, we made d-e-l-i-c-i-o-u-s!
He me had, had me he
He had me tongue tied!!
I could hear his rhythm in my thoughts!!
I was his sharp, his horn section
His boom and his bip!!!!!
And he was my love..................

Love rain down on me, on me, down on me

The rain was fallin' and, and slowly and sweetly and stinging my eyes
And I could not see that he became my voodoo priest
And I was his faithful concubine!!!
Wide open, wide, loose like bowels after collard greens
The mistake was made
Love....... slipped from my lips.....
Dripped..... down my chin......and landed in his lap......!!!
And us became new
Now me non-clairvoyant and in love
Made the coochie easy and the obvious invisible
The rain was falling
And I couldn't see the season changing
And the vibe slipping off it's axis
Our beautiful melody became wildly staccato
The...rain.... was.... falling.... and....I.... could.... not.... see...
That....I.... was.... to.... be... plowed.... and ....sowed.... and.....fertilized
And....left... to... drown.... in.... his.... sunny.....afternoon.............(!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! oooooweeeeee GET'EM JILL!!!)
Cumulus clouds, 84 degrees, melody


Gentlemen...mm mmm mmmm....if you don't know anything about THIS...you need to do

First Date
I know that movies are so "cliché" and that it doesn't allow the opportunity for discussion....HOWEVER...I would REALLYYYYY like to go see "The Purge", and I would really like to go with someone that can hold me and make me feel protected when and if I get scared. I could very well go see this on my own, or with my girlfriends, but I would much rather experience something new, WITH someone new. Now that I have put that out there....let's see what happens.





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