okay well first of all I'm not looking for 1 night stand if that's what you're looking for don't bother... if you're still interested I currently work as an emergency room technician I have been there for four years. I have 3 children and they mean the world to me. I'm hesitant about this whole online dating thing but between work and the kids and school I don't have time to go out and look. I'm currently going to school to finish prerequisites for nursing school. I'm also a certified emergency medical responder I use to volunteer for my local fire department but I recently moved. I'm a curious person if I don't know how to do something show me. I Know how to fix my own car, I've learned not to rely on anyone else to do things for me, although it would be nice to find someone who is willing to help. I've been told I have a tendency to push nice people away, so I'm hoping that 1 person out there that will show me that they're not all the same and will stick around to prove it. I'm looking for someone who also wants a relationship, no lying no cheating no sneaky crap. Someone who is family oriented, and can relate to kids you know like to see the waterslide and wants to be the first one down, someone who could just have fun. Most of all I don't like angry people, life is too stressful if you can be having the worst day of your life and can still find something to laugh about, you are truly a great person. And i also want someone who could be my friend more than anything. I do believe you can't have a relationship without having a friendship first. I am a little shy and don't always know what to say so if I don't reply right away I'm not ignoring you.