I am an open minded, easy going, and dedicated father of two very cool boys. I believe myself to be as honest and dependable as they come, and I believe your word should mean something, so yes, I carry the "nice person" gene. I take pride in everything I do from work to parenting to relationships, but it will come with plenty of humor.
I use this site, because I find dating in my 40's "so much fun" that I want to try to maintain multiple conversations with as many women as possible. LOL ..... Did I mention I am sarcastic?
Ok...seriously, maybe really because meeting someone in my daily routines, especially after moving, is very limited, and I would like to find someone to enjoy with me whatever comes next. My boys are a top priority, but I have a flexible schedule with them, and a unique schedule of days off compared to the average bear.
Simply put, I have my ...... together, and I am very happy in my current life (and well........ have pretty much always been that way) as I make the best of every day. But because I am a male, I surely have plenty of flaws, that I will gladly deny later on.
I am also not interested in keeping up with the Joneses, so you will find that I prefer to make my own path while keeping it simple. I've filled the "hard working years" square, and now prefer to enjoy, more than achieve, (unless they are synonymous). I find humor VERY important, commonly dry or in the form of sarcasm, but any shape will do as I find it easy to laugh and smile...... even if at myself. :)
Diversity is important, so I don't necessarily prefer someone just like me, but hopefully we compliment and appreciate each other. I love the outdoors in every way, from hiking or kayaking, to just hanging outside at a cafe, but I am happy anywhere. I stay fit and active and don't anticipate every changing that, but I am NOT a gym rat. I steal it wherever I can, and mostly while on the road with work. And yes, I eat fairly healthy and organic most of the time. And don't worry, I like just relaxing as much as I like being active. I'm very well balanced.
The key for me is to always learn and evolve, while being who I am. All relationships require effort, but if we get each other, it's easy :)
"They've done studies you know. 60% of the time, it works every time."
As a pilot, I travel (not international) so that comes with a unique schedule and time off that I enjoy and hopefully you will too. And if you have read this far, you may wonder how the distance might work between our cities and/or my travel time. Well, email me back and lets find out. It's not like you don't enjoy SOME time away from us, right? :)
If there is any doubt, remember my first paragraph.