Of course as a female I don't HAVE to be single! I would like someone in my life that at 1st is my best friend and possibly lead to a relationship. I would like someone who can compliment what I have and which will allow us to build together. I'm not looking to have sex or hook up! I'm not looking to fulfill ur fantasy of being with an older woman, younger woman or black woman. I don't give my personal # out off Hi I like to converse a bit up here so I can decide if we do have something in common.